Welcome to Parental Alienation Solutions

Parental Alienation is a form of abuse that destroys the sacred bond between a loving parent and their child at the time of a divorce.                                                                                           (Child includes teen and young adult children).  

Parental Alienation is affecting millions of children and families and involves:

  •  Psychologically and emotionally torturing and manipulating the minds of children, teenagers and young adults by their corrupt, abusive parent

  • for the intentional purpose of causing these children to want to eliminate their kind, loving parent from their life; like they too are getting divorced.

  • This abusive parent does not care about the trauma suffered by our precious children due to their lies and schemes causing these children to incorrectly think they should no longer love their kind, loving parent and now should hate or fear them.  Pure Evil.

  • Our national campaign is committed to shedding light on this particular form of mental child abuse and emotional torture,

  • So  both parents and their children can move forward in their lives with greater understanding, healing and hope for reaching their beautiful potential as God intended for them.

  • It is in the best interest of children to have relationships and  be loved by both of their divorced parents, not just one.



The first show on parental alienation which aired November 1, 2013; showed the common behaviors of the children and parents in a parental alienation situation. The mother/daughter reunification therapy in March, the follow-up show and everyone’s behaviors in the interim should give a clear picture of this form of child abuse and the emotional manipulation, torture and brainwashing. 

This is a very positive step as it is bringing awareness of parental alienation into the mainstream of our society with Dr. Phil leading the way.

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It even appears that the clergy have been ignoring parental alienation since the 1970’s  because it is profitable for them; they receive donations from these sick parents: 

1-   http://www.palienation.org/the-new-rabbi-by-s-friedchpt-2-rabbi-gerald-wolpe-aiding-parental-alienation/  

2- Both the influential Rabbi David Wolpe and his good friend Pastor Rick Warren refuse  to discuss parental alienation or try to educate their communities. This is not reasonable if they truly care about the well-being of children, families and our society.

Even Dr. Phil touched on this.

Please see the Jewish Child Abuse page for more details. I have an abundance of written and other evidence of this abuse. http://www.palienation.org/donation/

With more awareness and understanding of parental alienation, our National Campaign will focus on changing the laws so that:

1) The abusive, corrupt parents who use lies and misleading statements to brainwash precious children causing them to hate or fear their loving parent;

  • will no longer receive tax and other monetary benefits our laws currently award to the custodial parent. [2]
  • and will still be required to pay child support even if the children choose this parent as the custodial parent;

Changing these current laws will discourage a sick parent from using the children as his or her pawn or bargaining chip  so he or she can receive financial and tax benefits. This should help end some of the parental alienation situations as these sick parents will no longer receive monetary and tax benefits for destroying the sacred parent/child bond. [3]

Parental alienation, driven by our current financial and tax laws, has caused millions of children to alienate their loving, fit parent whom they now hate or fear without any justification.[4-5]

It is well documented that this child abuse and emotional torture is causing many psychological emotional and physical problems for millions  of children in the United States alone and  a majority of children of divorce will experience some form of this child abuse and emotional torture called parental alienation.[7-8]

 2) Our laws must no longer allow a parent to hide assets in any divorce proceedings by:

  • moving the assets to other entities,
  •  using accounting and tax strategies to hide assets that were created during the marriage or were part of the marital or community estate.

3) Our laws must no longer give judges or other authoritative bodies

  •  the discretion of demanding full disclosure before determining divorce settlements and support orders.

Our current laws allowing the hiding of assets and not demanding full disclosure of all marital or community assets and income results in an unjust division of property.

These laws encourage parental alienation because now,  the sick, scheming parent can better provide for the financial needs of the children.  As a result, the child must now look only to the sick, scheming  parent for financial support since the loving parent was cheated out of her or his lawful and fair share of the marital property.  [6]

4) Our laws must recognize Parental Alienation as a:

  • legal cause of action,
  • mandating severe  monetary and criminal penalties,
  • for the parent and those who assist this parent in destroying the sacred parent/child bond.

Often these abusive and corrupt parents enlist others to help carry out their lies and schemes like doctors, therapists, teachers, lawyers, accountants and even judges and clergy.[9]

It is in the best interest of a child if they receive love and support from both divorced parents. [10]

The purpose of our laws and those who enforce these laws is to provide “justice for all”, not for those who use lies and schemes and manipulate our tax and other laws, harming our children, society and creating unjust divorce settlements. [11-12]

Our current laws are prohibiting both parents from contributing equally to their children’s financial and emotional needs which is harming millions of children psychologically, emotionally and physically which is destroying our society.

If these children are not taught positive values and behaviors, the child abuse of parental alienation will become their “legacy” as they will repeat it. This is destroying their beautiful futures and those of future generations.

We will continue to have more and more people in our society act out in violent and other destructive ways since they have not been taught, kindness, compassion, respect and working things out in a peaceful, civil manner. We must stop the child abuse and emotional torture of parental alienation and save our children and society.

About Me

My Bio

I am an attorney with experiences in business, marketing and finance.

I am also an activist and subject matter expert currently working with Dr. Phil and others bringing awareness to the emotional torture and brainwashing of children which is a form of child abuse called parental alienation. Due to my divorce, therapeutic work and research, I have become a subject matter expert in the field of parental alienation.

Millions of emotionally sick, controlling parents who commonly have narcissistic and other personality disorders, are brainwashing children, which includes teens and adults, by defaming the character of the wonderful, fit parent at the time of divorce. As a result, millions of children have learned to hate and fear their loving, fit parent. Once this loving parent is alienated from the children’s life, the sick, abusive parent has total control of them. (1, 2)

For many years I have been living with the damages these sick, evil, abusive parents, our outdated laws, many leaders, their organizations, including religious ones, and other individuals have been and continue to cause millions of children, parents and society by intentionally creating or aiding in destroying the sacred parent/child relationship commonly at the time of divorce.

***Our children are not property to be used to eliminate a child support obligation or used as a tax deduction that a sick parent can achieve by destroying this sacred parent/child relationship.

As a result, millions of children are suffering from psychological, emotional and physical problems such as low self-esteem and self-hatred, lack of trust, depression, substance abuse and other forms of addiction, as children lose the capacity to give and accept love from their wonderful, fit, loving parent.

In addition this abusive behavior is ruining our society because these children are taught to tolerate the abuse and other destructive behaviors and pass them on to their children. (2)

This emotional torture and brainwashing, called parental alienation, has been going on for about 50 years now. The Jewish leaders and Jewish organizations have known about it but appear to have some alliance to just ignore it as the children are emotionally tortured right in front of their eyes. (3,4)

I, a fellow Jew, have even reached out to many of them questioning the reasonableness of such behavior, especially since they claim to support the teachings of God. They ignore me and have even forced me to leave while quietly praying. These are the behaviors of tyrants, not kind, reasonable people. (1, 2, 4)

Millions of corrupt, abusive, parents and those aiding them, including these religious leaders, are motivated by money, control and other benefits they value more than the well-being of our precious children and the sacred parent/child bond.

It is horrifying to realize that their abusive and very harmful acts are being protected by our current laws. Thus, it is imperative these laws be changed to reflect the change in our society which now includes a class of millions of divorced parents and their children of divorce.(2-statistics near bottom)

Our laws must uphold the values of our Constitution and protect our Individual Rights which were designed to protect children and their loving, fit parent, not abuse them.

Furthermore, as many doctors and other experts have determined, it is in the best interest of the children to receive love from both of their parents. They are not the ones getting divorced and should not be controlled by a sick, abusive parent who brainwashes them so they believe they too must get “divorced” by alienating their loving parent. 

These corrupt and immoral individuals and organizations they control must be punished for destroying the sacred parent/child bond. Children are our future and must be loved, and taught the values of love, understanding, compassion, honesty and other healthy family values.

With awareness, society will reasonably see the need for new laws to punish, not reward, the parent who carries out this emotional torture and child abuse and those who aid this parent. New laws will help end this cycle of abuse and torture and restore, not destroy the sacred parent/child relationship.  Divorce is a time when children and loving parents need more love and support and are extremely vulnerable. An emotionally healthy person would not try to take advantage of our precious children ever, but especially at the time of divorce when they need more love and kindness.

Inspired by many honest and compassionate leaders who have understood what freedom and love for humanity represents. They have shown by their efforts and accomplishments that these rights and values are to be afforded by women, their children and all others, not just an entitled group: I too am a free born American, Jewish woman, mother and citizen and

I am trying to tell our society, government, Jewish leaders, other religious leaders, school administrators, coaches, therapists, doctors, lawyers, judges, Congress and others who should be representing the cornerstone of American values. However, they have drastically departed from our laws and principles of honesty, freedom and the individual rights our country stands for.

I am trying to bring awareness to this emotional torture and child abuse so new laws can be written and enforced that reflect the values of our county and those of righteous, moral , honest, responsible people who comprise our country. These new laws will save millions of children and their loving parent who are suffering from the emotional torture and child abuse of parental alienation and many other abuses. God intended his world to be filled with love and those who teach his loving ways.


  1. Parental Alienation Solutions, Background page http://www.palienation.org/background/

  2. Parental Alienation Solutions, About Us page http://www.palienation.org/
  3. The New Rabbi, by Stephen Fried, Chapter 2, see highlights http://www.palienation.org/the-new-rabbi-by-s-friedchpt-2-rabbi-gerald-wolpe-aiding-parental-alienation/
  4. Parental Alienation Solutions, Jewish Child Abuse page http://www.palienation.org/donation/


-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder, www.PAlienation.org

For more Footnotes see Background