A person must have COURAGE to live life with LOVE.
This means only two (2) things:
1) Standing Strong to PROTECT your legal right to Love or;
2) Changing your unloving, immoral, abusive, criminal ways by using reasonable due diligence to LEARN how to love.
This important change of learning to love occurs by beginning your life again with a new positive perspective which will dictate your new positive behaviors of love.
This includes love for yourself by beginning to diligently take care of your emotional and psychological needs with a reputable therapist or in a reputable program and being PROUD OF YOURSELF for seeking the help you need; not ashamed.
Otherwise, a person will continue with their status quo of torturing, terrorizing, oppressing and abusing in order to PROFIT
or in order to SUPPORT those who PROFIT.
There is NO SENSE OF DUTY OR LOYALTY to torture, terrorize, oppress and abuse others as they will do this to you too.
There IS, however, a sense of duty or loyalty to be kind, caring, compassionate, honest and reasonable to those who want to treat you the same way; CONSISTENTLY. I have this beautiful sense of duty and loyalty with my special friends.
***I used to have this sense of duty and loyalty with my Children and Husband too, but they betrayed me and my love. I have NOT ABANDONED THEM; they have abandoned ME and our honest, compassionate, loving way of life.
My parents and sister ABANDONED ME TOO when they illegally used my social security number and a fraudulent grantor trust to try to evade taxes back in 1985. THIS IS NOT LOVE, THIS IS TERROR AND ABUSE.
The culprits must change, NOT those who are reasonable, kind, caring and honest. If they refuse to change, THEY ONLY HAVE THEMSELVES TO BLAME, if they even care.
A parent’s right to take care of and have the companionship of her children is so fundamental as to be GUARANTEED PROTECTION under the First, Fifth, Ninth and Fourteenth Amendments of the United States Constitution and loss of these constitutional FREEDOMS, for even minimal periods of time, UNQUESTIONABLY constitutes irreparable injury.
DON’T LET unreasonable, abusive, corrupt people pull YOU down. Instead have COURAGE to stand strong in support of your outstanding values and character and lead your life accordingly. What they choose to do is beyond your control.
I love living in MY WORLD OF LOVE with those who also have the COURAGE to live life with love. The others do not deserve your love because they do not appreciate it and will only harm you again.
So, have fun like I do in the World of Love with many wonderful people which I am so grateful for.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based on my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder; www.PAlienation.org