Are you BRAINWASHED and allow yourself to be MANIPULATED?
Here is an easy way to tell if YOU are brainwashed or manipulated and may not even know it:
For alienated Children of all ages and others too:
Think back to when you were part of a happy family before the divorce when you had dinners together, helped each other, were kind and respectful. Also, you cared about your health and had positive hobbies.
NOW look at yourself.
Do you cuss, and are not kind to others unless it is BENEFICIAL FOR YOU?
Have you given up playing sports and your other positive hobbies and activities you enjoy?
Do you have kind friends or friends who are nice to you when they feel like it because it helps THEM and they TURN ON YOU when it is in their best interest to make YOU the SCAPEGOAT?
So, you do the same to them instead of separating yourself from them and making new friends (guilt by association). Why are you ALLOWING THEM TO ABUSE YOU AND TREAT YOU THIS WAY? This is your own fault for allowing it..
You don’t need friends who are only nice when it helps THEM and talk behind your back and are mean to you when it helps THEM. Do you now do the same?
Are you no longer a true friend or a TRUSTWORTHY PERSON?
Do you eat unhealthy food and have gained weight and maybe even take drugs and drink? Why not go get the help you need so you can change these bad habits and UNDERSTAND why you developed them in the first place. That would be REASONABLE AND RATIONAL.
***Are you no longer reasonable and rational? That is a true sign of brainwashing and manipulation as I understand.
I hope this is helpful especially with Mother’s Day coming.
***Is it reasonable and rational you have not tried to have a civil conversation with your alienated Mother?
Is it reasonable and rational that she does not know how to contact you? Why?
What has she done that is so horrible, especially if she is known for her kindness and good character and is a law-abiding citizen.
***Who is the unreasonable and irrational one? You or your alienated, kind, law-abiding Mother? What do you think a judge or a jury will think? What about other RATIONAL PEOPLE in society?
I hope this is helpful to put the TRUTH in perspective.
As always, none of this is advice of any kind, just based on my knowledge and experiences of which I have many worthwhile ones.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org