Before you decide to get into the “game” or world of corruption and become a “hustler” yourself, know that the fast money and the fame is just a delusion because many hustlers end up dead or in jail and my families are perfect examples; the one I grew up in and the one I raised.
Happiness, self-esteem, peace of mind and of course love does not exist in this world of corruption; there is only betrayal, lies, schemes, guilt and shame while trying to act cool.
Apparently my three (3) adult children and millions of other alienated children suffering from Parental Alienation have CHOSEN to enter this game or world of corruption which they think is cool.
They have become a product of their environment with their corrupt father MARK HASSMAN and his cohorts and therefore will continue this cycle of corruption and abuse unless they get out.
My children and millions like them are giving up love, kindness, truth and respect in exchange for lies, betrayal, abuse, disrespect, blackmail, intimidation and the like. Not too wise.
Why have my three children refused to contact me for over eight (8) years now and other alienated Mothers and fathers too have the same story? Why do these children refuse to get out of this corruption and return to the world of love, kindness, truth and respect? This is not reasonable for my children and millions like them.
Hustlers and their gang, cult or group members do not play by any rules. They will turn on you the moment you are very vulnerable and make you more vulnerable so they can abuse you more.
They will also turn on you when they have used you up and you are no longer useful to them.
Remember, you will not always be attractive arm candy and there are younger women who want to take your place and other men willing to “work” for less or get their hands more dirty. THUS, YOU WILL BE VERY INSECURE ALWAYS WHICH IS HOW THE HUSTLERS LIKE TO KEEP YOU.
The sooner you leave this toxic environment, the better off you will be. Most never leave, BUT I DID.
Those who remain either end up dead, in jail, miserable or sick or filled with sadness and shame even if they put on their “game face” of happiness. Why do you think these hustlers have drinking, drug, sex and many other obsessions? It is to take their mind off reality and make themselves “comfortably numb.”
In my situation, the judge in 1985 told my parents, sister and their attorney that if they did not settle with me and he heard the evidence, based on the documents he read; he would have to report my parents, sister and their attorney to the criminal division. Thus, they would very likely go to jail for trying to involve me in their tax evasion scheme and for operating the scheme itself. Since we settled, they never went to jail. However, none of them ever got out of this horrible game of corruption.
As a result, my father with all his “fame and fortune” died of a heart attack while supposedly vacationing in Europe. My mother and sister with all of their “fame and fortune” are ruthless and still corrupt. Since my lawsuit against them helped change the “kiddie trust” laws; my mother and sister have found another corrupt way to evade taxes.
My mother and sister along with their SYNAGOGUE BETH TFILOH, which is one of my defendants in my Federal lawsuit; are promoting Parental Alienation and the illegal and immoral use of 501(c)(3) and other nonprofit agreements to steal the property, savings, retirement and other assets from loving, law-abiding Mothers (and some fathers too) at the time of divorce and thereafter.
***I am so glad I got away from all of them and this world of corruption when I was 27 years old.
***As a result, I seriously stress the importance of others doing the same. It is never too late to do the right thing by exchanging your corrupt and immoral habits for honest, loving, kind and respectful habits. Learning new positive things keeps a person alive and feeling great, filled with self-esteem and pride. This is also taking care of yourself because you will force yourself to ACKNOWLEDGE THE TRUTH and Your Weaknesses. Then what you seek will come to you and you will be grateful, at peace and full of self-esteem and love. I know because I have been through all of this.
Thus, my very stupid, corrupt husband MARK HASSMAN, whom I have been trying for over 8 years now to get a legal divorce judgment from; should have known I would NEVER go back into this “game” or world of corruption.
He wanted me to take out student loans for our children which we did not need. Now, my facts show, he and many of my other defendants and unfortunately my children too, are running a student loan fraud scheme and other corrupt schemes. Think they are happy and at peace? No way.
My husband with his red face seems to have very high blood pressure and one foot in the grave already.
Living life in REALITY, not believing lies and illusions, will give you wisdom that no Ivy League University or college textbook could ever give you. It will also make you grateful, have empathy and learn to love; beginning to have love for yourself and your values and character.
As I used to tell my children; People can teach you what to do as well as what not to do. So choose wisely as to whose habits and behaviors you imitate and whose philosophies you follow.
Life is not just about surviving. It is about living with love, peace, self-confidence and honesty while making our world a better place for others who strive to do the same and refuse to become part of this game or world of corruption.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;