Being flexible and adamant at the same time is important to show your character and never sell your soul to corruption.
I want to clarify for everyone especially for someone who keeps sending me emails and tagging me in to these nice quotes and amazingly has taken over my Pandora site and plays these very nice and interesting songs. (it is quite impressive).
Please try to understand; someone once told me that a wise person is flexible and also adamant at the same time.
They are flexible with regard to unimportant issues like what outfit to wear or what movie to see or what to cook for dinner.
However, they are very adamant when it come to issues regarding their character like associating with people who are kind and respectful and are interested in enriching themselves in positives ways which will enrich you too if you become friends.
They will not hesitate to tell someone who is mean and disrespectful to them to please refrain from such behavior and to treat them as they would want to be treated themselves otherwise they will end their friendship. Many call this SETTING YOUR BOUNDARIES.
Thus, please understand that I do not want to associate with anyone who refuses to make it very clear both publicly and privately that they are against parental alienation and will DO acts to help eliminate it in their own community. They will also help loving, law-abiding, fit parents reunite with their children of all ages.
This shows beautiful values and character.
If someone refuses to carry out these very reasonable, kind, compassionate acts; all the time; then I will not associate with them because parental alienation is a form of abuse and I will not associate with anyone who is an abuser or promotes abuse or remains silent when they can help those being abused. This is very reasonable.
To be my friend you must make it very, very clear that you will help end parental alienation always, and be PROUD to do this, before I will allow you to be my friend and even associate with you. You cannot buy me or impress me with titles or money either. It is a person’s value and character which impresses me.
Follow your heart but take your brain with you!!!
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice, it is just based on my knowledge and experiences.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienaiton.org