EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY along with GREED and UNHAPPINESS is what destroys many who could make positive accomplishments. Instead they literally bury themselves in their shame and guilt with their obsessions while trying to portray an honest, compassionate, confident, omniscient false image.
People like this are living but without a mind, heart and soul.
They are just walking robots that do what they are ordered, knowing they must follow the corrupt organization’s or cult’s philosophies because they are COWARDS.
They are unreasonable and irrationally afraid to change their destructive ways and do what they know or should know is moral and just by compensating those they have harmed and helping to implement laws and programs to eradicate this corruption from our society.
If you doubt my words, just ask any religious leader, lawyer, judge, executive, non-profit school administrators and the court-appointed therapist why:
1) They have refused to help millions of us begin communicating with our Children who alienated us at the time of divorce, without any reasonable or rational basis;
2) They have refused to stop their illegal and immoral use of 501(c)(3) agreements to hide and steal the loving, honest, law-abiding Mother’s (father’s) money, property, assets and other interests so THEY CAN ILLEGALLY and SECRETLY TAKE IT;
3) They have refused to stop many from illegally and immorally using their 501(c)(3) agreements to evade taxes, launder money and hide income and assets.
4) They want to continue to live in their bubble, club or cult and anyone who tries to interfere they will SECRETLY and ILLEGALLY harass, abuse, torture, terrorize, oppress, hack and silence instead of being reasonable and objective with love and compassion in their heart.
This poignantly describes my family as I first experienced in 1985 with my mother and father HELENE and STANLEY PENN; my sister RUTH PENN CARLINER; and my cousins
LEWIS and MITZI PENN and SAM and BEVERLY PENN.
My father was in business with his cousins Lewis and Sam Penn.
Their fathers originally owed a gas station and when automobile manufacturers were beginning to sell cars; they approached gas station owners. My father’s father and his brother agreed to operate an automobile dealership called PENN BROTHERS, in Baltimore, Maryland where their gas station was located.
My father originally worked at PENN BROTHERS with his father, his uncle and his cousins. Then when I was a young child, my father with his father’s support, left PENN BROTHERS and opened up a different automobile dealership called PENN PONTIAC. I was told that the family had different business ideas so my father with his father’s support wanted to open his own dealership. However, I grew up never knowing any of my Penn cousins.
When I sued my parents, sister and their lawyer in 1985 regarding their illegal use of my social security number and setting up a fraudulent grantor trust with it; I found out the truth of what happened at PENN BROTHERS.
In 1985 or 1986, I called my cousin Lewis Penn to see if he would agree to meet with me because there was a check in my trust account for “The Penn Building Trust” and my lawyer recommended that we try to find out more about this. All of my Penn cousins were very kind and gracious and accepted me and my husband and later our Children in to their family.
***My cousins Lewis and Sam had a wonderful sister Bobbie who died of cancer and I miss very much. She told me that what my father and mother were doing to me with this trust was no different than the schemes they created at PENN BROTHERS. My father and his father were THROWN OUT of the business; they did not leave because there was a difference in philosophies. Well, if you consider being honest and being corrupt a difference, then maybe so.
However, by not prosecuting my father and his father, my cousins EMPOWERED them to continue to commit their corrupt schemes.
Consequently, I was just another one of my father’s victims since I was a scion and he along with my mother, sister and their attorney thought they could control me, especially since I was a daughter.
***As F. Scott Fitzgerald so vividly expresses in his classic novel “The Great Gatsby;” my cousins left me with the responsibility of cleaning up their mess.
“The Great Gatsby;” shows how emotionally immature, greedy, unhappy people destroy positive relationships and INSTEAD OF BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE they are just ignored or thrown out of a family business. Thus, these emotionally immature, greedy, unhappy people, like my father are left to commit more destruction which is exactly what my father did to me and this time with the help of my mother, sister and their lawyer.
Further, my Penn cousins who refused to hold my father and his father legally accountable to DETER them from committing more corrupt acts; left me with the very serious responsibility at age 27 of cleaning up their mess.
I had to sue my father, mother, sister and their attorney in order to clear my social security number with the IRS and dissolve this fraudulent grantor trust so they could not commit these illegal and immoral acts again. This shows my reasonable and responsible character. Justice prevailed and the “kiddie” trust laws where changed too.
At 27 years old, I did not ignore the fraudulent tax evasion scheme by letting my father, mother, sister and their lawyer continue to illegally and immorally use my social security number. I accepted my responsibility and peacefully using the legal system, rectified the problem.
Had my cousins sued my father due to his corrupt acts at PENN BROTHERS; it is much less likely my father would have committed the illegal and immoral acts against me as my lawsuit shows in 1985 he did.
As my current lawsuit in the Court of Appeal case#B267984 shows which I filed to rectify my fraudulent, invalid and unenforceable divorce contract and the form of abuse, terror, torture and oppression called Parental Alienation; not only has my husband MARK HASSMAN changed; but so have all my PENN COUSINS.
All of them to my immeasurable dismay continue to show their greed, lack of compassion, unhappiness and emotional immaturity by refusing to help me at a minimum begin communicating with my Children again.
***I believe, deep in my heart that if my cousin Bobbie was still living; she would help me and would be just as disgusted as I am.
Well, mark my word, I do not believe in leaving my problems for others to solve. It is my problem to rectify my fraudulent, invalid and unenforceable divorce contract and I will not leave the problem of Parental Alienation and other corrupt acts of my husband MARK HASSMAN for my Children to solve.
Whether my Children choose to allow their father to control them and continue to alienate them from me, their loving Mother, is their prerogative as I continue to set the example of honesty, independence, compassionate and reasonableness for MYSELF, and others if they care to learn, including my own Children.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experiences.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org