Everyone has a special gift but will you CHOOSE to use it?
You have a very special mind and your own special skills and talents.
If you first CHOOSE to use them to help YOURSELF in positive, meaningful ways, you can reach your potential.
Your brother, sister and friends have different skills than you so focus on YOUR skills and talents and develop those while they develop theirs.
Then you are better able to help each other and other people too make positive, meaningful accomplishments AS YOU LEAD THE WAY for them and TOGETHER you learn and grow from you efforts which will include your mistakes.
If you keep learning from your accomplishments, and from positive people around you and also from your own and others’ mistakes; then you keep becoming wiser and more and more well-rounded.
If instead you CHOOSE not to learn positive new things or choose to learn to do harmful things to others; you become part of the problem or the evil and you will become filled with a lot of shame, anger and hatred. This is also part of your subconscious mind.
***No matter how much money you have, you will never be able to enjoy it because you will be filled with so much shame, anger and hatred for all of your acts and will not be able to love.
As my very wise and compassionate Grandfather Ben taught me along with wise and compassionate Judge James S. Sfekas and also the famous Holocaust survivor and writer Elie Wiesel and some other special people in my life; NEVER GIVE UP YOUR BEAUTIFUL VALUES AND CHARACTER because if you do; you will have NOTHING meaningful in life.
So, in order to be able to FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHTS AND MAINTAIN YOUR BEAUTIFUL VALUES AND CHARACTER; you must keep yourself healthy. If your body is strong, your mind will be too and you will be less likely to be intimidated by others because you will have CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF.
Also, keep up with your hobbies or learn some new ones so you will always have fun and enriching things to do. Your hobbies will also help you meet others who have your same interests, especially if you join a club like a health club, or a chess club or a book group or a knitting group. I recently had a very nice conversation at the flower nursery when I was picking out my flowers for my Benjamin Garden.
***Just remember how special you are and never let anyone take your special character and talents away. Stand up for your rights because if you don’t you will live a life being filled with anger, shame and hatred; not love, kindness and compassion.
If you doubt my words, just look around you.
I know because I grew up in a family filled with anger, shame and hatred but also had my wonderful Grandfather Ben who taught me love, kindness, compassion and the importance of hobbies.
We both painted, we both had gardens, we both read books, we both kept up with current events, we both kept ourselves in shape and ate healthy and we both stood up for our rights and the rights of those who were unable to stand up for themselves.
My gift is to be able to now focus my mind and use my knowledge, skills and experience to help end the epidemic problems of Parental Alienation, Fraudulent Divorce Contracts and resulting Marriage Fraud to make our world a better place for kind, caring, compassionate, honest people.
What is your gift?
You may have several as you learn new things and develop new ideas.
This is the beauty of life if you are kind, caring, honest and try to help yourself maintain your beautiful values and character; daily.
It is a way of life.
As always none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experiences including facts about those in the Establishment.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org