Fighting for Your Freedom among those who want to continue to Control you, like Dinah.

Some view the story of Dinah as demonstrating the “danger” facing a woman who dares to visit a neighboring town on her own instead of remaining sheltered at home and “allowing” herself to be controlled by her Father, Brothers and then Husband; never being ALLOWED to use her OWN mind and her OWN free will to do positive things SHE wants to do. Others view the story as one of a very COURAGEOUS WOMAN who wanted to use her independent mind and free will in positive ways; refusing to be controlled by men. 

The story of Dinah is from the Jewish or Hebrew Bible.
This is how I understand the story and how it relates to Parental Alienation and the abusive acts of the Jewish Leaders and others today. 
With my deepest regrets as a fellow Jewish woman who is PROUD of her independent mind and strength and her ABILITY to use it in positive ways to help heal many in the world even if this means holding fellow Jewish Leaders and Organizations, other Jews and others accountable for their lies, schemes and evil destruction of Women and Children. 

I learned as a young adult that in life you must be able to PROTECT others before they are able to heal. 
They must feel FREE to express their TRUE feelings, before they can heal. 

Thus, it is important that you have ALACRITY which is the attitude of being eager and ready. It is important to have alacrity when addressing your challenges so you can improve YOURSELF and thus prevent your challenges from scaring you.
Having alacrity in addressing your challenges, YOU will grow and mature in many ways as you lead the way for those who choose to follow your example. 
I often have people tell me how I have helped them in many ways because of how I am addressing the issues of parental alienation and my fraudulent divorce. I never expected this but this is what has happened.So, as the Bible states: Dinah, the daughter of Leah and Jacob, went out to visit the women of Shechem, where her family had made camp and where her father Jacob had purchased land and pitched his tent. Shechem (the son of Hamor, the prince of the land) “took her (Dinah) and lay with her and humbled her. And his soul was drawn to Dinah … he loved the maiden and spoke tenderly to her.” Shechem asked his father Hamor to obtain Dinah for him, to be his wife because they loved each other very much. 

Thus, Dinah was paving the way for the modern marriage between a man and a woman as we know it today and paving the way for the abolishment of “arranged” marriages in many cultures. 

Dinah was also paving the way for a woman to be seen as a INDIVIDUAL with FREE WILL having the RIGHT to use her mind in positive ways, not having to get PERMISSION FIRST from her father, brother or husband before she can think or act. 

Dinah was also abolishing the abusive thought process of a woman being viewed as the PROPERTY of her father, brother or husband. She was showing that a woman has the free will to CHOOSE to be FREE and INDEPENDENT, not property of anyone. 

Hamor, Shechem’s father came to Jacob, Dinah’s father, and asked for Dinah’s hand in marriage for his son. To make a long story short, what could have been a beautiful marriage and a wonderful union of many families turned out to be horrible lies, deception and schemes resulting in the death of many by two of Dinah’s brothers who killed the entire town of Shechem. The facts show both Dinah and her fiancée Shechem were very happy together and Dinah was happy living in the town of Shechem. What a horrible shame.

Dinah’s father Jacob reprimanded the two brothers of Dinah for their anger and violent acts of killing the men, women and children of the entire town of Shechem and also for refusing to honor the agreement of marriage between their sister Dinah and Shechem saying: “You have brought trouble on me by making me odious to the inhabitants of the land.” 

However, Jacob received God’s anger because he waited too long to carry out his agreement with Hamor. Instead of within a reasonable time having the marriage he agreed to; Jacob instead allowed time for the Dinah’s brothers to interfere with the marriage agreement. (Could the same be said for the Judge who refuses to set aside or amend my conspicuous fraudulent stipulated judgment upon my repeated requests; allowing time for many to interfere as I and my Children continue to suffer?)

It is my understanding, as my very wise Grandfather Ben taught me that a Jew must be ready to fight to defend his or her self-respect and NEVER sacrifice, abuse or allow their Children; which includes Teens and Young Adults to be abused in any way. 

This is the alacrity I was referring to. Alacrity in exposing the Truth about Parental Alienation and all those involved in causing it and perpetuating it by giving their support as documents and other evidence show.
I have gathered and organized this evidence since I obtained the strength to go through my divorce file and relive this horrible abuse and the abuse of my Children too. It is not easy as I am sure you can imagine, but it has helped me in many ways.

As the story of Dinah shows, God is REASONABLE. 
Jacob knew his family was surrounded by families who understandably hated them because of how they deceived the people of Shechem and then killed them. But, once Jacob fulfilled his promise to God by going to Bethel, God arranged it so the neighboring families were no longer a danger to Jacob and his family.

There is also the lesson some believe that because the city of Shechem allowed Shechem to treat Dinah the way he did by not teaching him and enforcing laws and behaviors of morality and honesty, all of them died.
God will not allow others to teach abuse thereby allowing the CYCLE of abuse to continue. Thus, parents and other family members must live by and enforce acts of morality and justice which includes respect for ALL and respect for the RIGHTS of everyone; which includes Women and their Children of all ages. 
This is not ONLY what Judaism stands for but is also what Democracy stands for too.

Thus, for those who turn their cheek to the modern day Adolph Hitlers who create and perpetuate Parental Alienation by helping to destroy the Mother/Daughter and Mother/Son companionship (or father), and take the Mother’s property and savings for themselves will badly suffer. 
However, if they TRULY change their ways, PERMANENTLY, and fairly repair the harms they have caused and put LAWS and POLICIES in place to PREVENT this abuse from reoccurring, they will be forgiven. 

***Do you think this is just nonsense? 
Do you think it is nonsense that I have recovered from my seizures, learned to cope with the daily abuse of parental alienation and that my skills came back to me too?

The Jewish people have LEARNED TO CHANGE their laws and practices in positive ways to adjust to changing circumstances and new problems facing the Jewish Community. This is why many believe the Jews have survived for thousands of years. 

A significant concern of Jewish authorities was to insure COMPLIANCE with the Torah’s commandments. “Torah” means instruction and offers a beautiful and peaceful way of life for those who follow it; even those like myself who just follows the philosophies, not some of the customs like keeping kosher. (I have found many who follow the customs, do not follow the important philosophies like respect and honesty as my evidence shows). 

There are 613 Commandments in the Torah. My Children learned in Hebrew school that the pomegranate is a “holy fruit,” because it has 613 seeds. My children wanted to test this belief so I bought some pomegranates for them which they ate and counted the seeds. Sure enough, there were 613 seeds. Remember? It was a fun experiment and a messy one too.

There are five books of the Torah. The fifth book called “Deuteronomy” consists of speeches by Moses giving NEW LAWS to the Jewish people which they need to follow in the Promised Land. These are laws the Jews had to adopt in order to morally and fairly resolve circumstances and new issues of contemporary life in the Promised Land.

Well, I think the Jews are at this crossroad again today. Destroying the Mother/Daughter and Mother/Son relationship at the time of divorce and stealing the Mother’s property, savings and other interests is a violation of the basic Ten Commandments and ALL Jewish laws. 

As author Stephen Fried wrote, the Jews have been carrying out their secret policy of Parental Alienation even though they KNOW they are harming the emotional well being and causing many problems for the Daughters, Sons and their loving Mother and for Future Generations. [

I have tried to reason with many Jewish leaders, Jewish Organizations, other Religious Leaders and Organizations and also others in our society. As typical Terrorists or Adolph Hitler types; they refuse to be reasonable and most refuse to even acknowledge my reasonable concerns and have sent me threatening emails despite my evidence which proves their unlawful and immoral acts and their shared responsibility, profits and greed. 

The Jews used to be praised for helping Jewish Children and others reach their beautiful potential and have moral and honest character and behavior. As the facts show, since the emancipation from Auschwitz Concentration Camp 70 years ago, the Jews have become like Adolph Hitler, destroying the sacred bond between a Loving Mother and her Children, Teens and Young Adults and stealing her property and savings at the time of divorce as they pretend to be honorable and kind. 
This is disgraceful beyond words.

So, I am bringing back the DIGNITY that used to be associated with the word “Jew” by exposing the truth about Parental Alienation and all those who say they are Jews but act like Adolph Hitler as well as non-Jews who do the same.We cannot let our Children and their Loving Mother (father) continue to be abused and treated in immoral and unlawful ways. This is not what Love and Democracy or any Reasonable Religion stands for. Judaism is a reasonable religion which is why it has survived for thousands of years.
It is time the current Jewish leaders become reasonable and moral or are forced to resign and held accountable for the harms they have caused. This is reasonable, moral and justice which I am pursuing with alacrity, love and great diligence.

If not I, then who?

As always, none of this is advice of any kind, it is based on my knowledge and understanding.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;




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