From today’s Wall Street Journal and also my New Attitude.
Since watching the political candidates especially Donald Trump; I have realized that there is another perspective than the one I have had. I now realize that Guilt lies with the SYSTEM AND THE ORGANIZATIONS which embrace the corrupt and immoral system.
I NOW believe that individuals hired to implement a corrupt and immoral system CAN BE victims themselves who feel like slaves because they are fearful of expressing their true feelings of honesty, compassion and love. They lack freedom and free will as do their victims.
Accordingly, the “religious system” of encouraging Parental Alienation so the loving, law-abiding Mother (father) and her Children are very distraught whereby they can more easily be abused and taken advantage of is not necessarily the fault of Rabbis who may be VICTIMS THEMSELVES.
If the Board of Directors dictates their job functions whereby encouraging Parental Alienation and also hiding and stealing the Wife/Mother’s community property and income using 501(c)(3) agreements so the organization can PROFIT FROM DIVORCE, then the Rabbis and other employees are victims too, to some degree.
Further, if lawyers and judges go along with this corrupt “religious system” by making the legal system corrupt too by also perpetuating Parental Alienation and also hiding and stealing the Wife/Mother’s community property and income using 501(c)(3) agreements , Limited Liability Corporations, fraudulent loans and other vehicles so they too can PROFIT FROM DIVORCE, then they are also victims, to some degree.
Rabbis, lawyers, judges, the court-appointed therapist, executives and others involved in the corrupt and immoral religious system and the corrupt and immoral legal system are INDIVIDUALS and have their own free will.
It is well overdue for these corrupt and immoral systems to be revamped so they are no longer corrupt and immoral but promote FREEDOM and JUSTICE for all.
With that being said; I hope Rabbis, lawyers, judges, the court-appointed therapist, executives and others involved in profiting from these systems, act as honest and moral INDIVIDUALS and HELP ME REVAMP THESE SYSTEMS so others will not be harmed.
Then they too will not feel shame or controlled by others who demand that they abuse, terrorize and torture a loving, law-abiding Wife/Mother and her Children so the organization can profit. This is not freedom but abuse and FOLLOWING a system which PROMOTES this slavery and control.
In today’s WALL STREET JOURNAL under “Notable & Quotable” was an online entry from the Mayo Clinic on NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER.
Many experts have proven that those who create and perpetuate Parental Alienation commonly have this disorder. To have this disorder you do not need to have all of the symptoms; just some. [www.PAlienation.org].
If you have some of these symptoms described in the article:
1) Acknowledge that you have them;
2) work on correcting them by engaging in conversations not just thinking about how YOU will respond. Think about the other person and their thoughts;
3) Don’t get angry because you cannot control someone. Instead learn from them and you should want to be ENRICHED by others, not control them, also;
4) Always be honest and don’t exaggerate to impress someone. A person worth your time will be impressed with the TRUE YOU; not some made-up image;
5) Treat others how you want to be treated instead of being haughty or arrogant to show your “power.” This only shows your narcissism and hides your beautiful personality. Let your heart and beauty shine through instead of hiding it behind arrogance and exaggerations.
Here is the article from the Wall Street Journal today:
If you have Narcissistic Personality Disorder, you may come across as conceited, boastful or pretentious. You often monopolize conversations. You may belittle or look down on people you perceive as inferior. You may feel a sense of entitlement-and when you don’t receive special treatment, you may become impatient or angry. You may insist on having “the best” of everything- for instance, the best car, athletic club or medical care.
At the same, you have trouble handling anything that may be perceived as criticism. You may have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, vulnerability and humiliation. To feel better, you may react with rage or contempt and try to belittle the other person to make yourself appear superior. Or you may feel depressed and moody because you fall short of perfection…
[the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders-5]…
Criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder include these features:
- Having an exaggerated sense of self-importance;
- Expecting to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it;
- Exaggerating your achievements and talents;
- Being preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate…
- Behaving in an arrogant or haughty manner.
(This is the end of the article).
If you want to change your destructive habits and behaviors you can. Just become aware of them and then replace them with a positive thought which will follow with a positive behavior because our thoughts dictate our behaviors.
Remember, no one is perfect but wise and compassionate people hold themselves to high standards and always try to improve themselves in positive ways and have an open mind so they live and learn in life.
Positive changes are very healthy.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice, it is based upon my knowledge and experiences.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org
Unfortunately Peanutbutter I hardly dare ask it, but do so as carefully and truly respectfully as possible: do you see any of the above NPD characteristics that perhaps might apply to you as well? Can you see that an educated, uninvolved outsider as myself might see you in such a light? NOT an attack.