Here is a PUBLISHED ARTICLE about OUR MOVEMENT and me, the founder from VoyageLA, hot off the press, DECEMBER 4, 2017. A copy of the article is below and here is the link too.http: //voyagela.com/interview/meet-sara-hassman-parental-alienation-solutions-west-los-angeles
Today we’d like to introduce you to Sara Hassman.
Sara, please share your story with us. How did you get to where you are today?
My Movement to End the Domestic Terrorism called Parental Alienation emanated from My LOVE: My Love for my Children; My Love for Equal Rights and My Love for our Democratic way of life in America. Also, I am applying the very important lessons of Love I learned in my live from wise, compassionate people as the following explains.
In 2007 and 2008, my husband, whom I had been married to since 1985, over twenty (20) years, wanted me to sign documents to take out student loans for our children’s college educations when I knew we had already saved millions of dollars for their education and did not need any student loans. Thus, I refused. He intended to run a Student Loan Fraud Scheme using the low interest rate student loan money to invest for his own purposes and was trying to get me involved.
Please note; my husband Mark Hassman, is a Harvard business school graduate, Certified Public Accountant and Chief Financial Officer who has been involved in negotiating complicated mergers and acquisitions for over thirty (30) years and controlled our marital finances due to all of his financial, tax and accounting expertise, education and experiences. When we were married, he was just beginning what turned out to be his very successful career.
I trusted him to follow the law and not cheat me as a wife should be able to do. Many professionals, religious teachings and our laws in the United States agree that in a marriage both a husband and a wife have a duty to treat each other honestly and fairly and to enrich each other in loving, lawful and positive ways; not to use, abuse and deceive each other or their children.
I, Sara Hassman, graduated from Northwestern University majoring in economics. I worked in my family’s automobile dealership before going to law school in 1980 with the intention of using my legal education in business.
I am a member of the Maryland bar and had the privilege of clerking for the beloved, wise and honest Judge James S. Sfekas during law school and then again part-time when I was raising my three children during the hours they were in school. Judge Sfekas along with my very wise, compassionate beloved Grandfather Ben taught me that you must NEVER give up your legal rights, honest values and character because without these things your life will become full of shame and anger and you will be miserable.
My Grandfather Ben used to tell me that Adolph Hitler could take everything material from us but he could never take away our good values and character so you must always protect those. I used to go to synagogue with my Grandfather and spent many happy times with him helping him in his beautiful rose garden and doing routine chores around his house while listening to some of his favorite songs on the record player. He lived life as an honest, compassionate Jew trying to make our world a better place for all which has had a very profound and positive influence on me.
For example, during the Civil Rights Movement in the 1960’s, my Grandfather wrote a letter to the President of the United States telling him to get rid of the Jim Crow Laws because his employees in his small butcher shop were not treated equally and these laws were unjust. Thus, both my Grandfather and Judge Sfekas showed me with their deeds that you must always use your individual skills, education, experiences and resources to help those who are UNABLE to fight for their own legal rights and to defend their own honest values and character.
These lessons have greatly influenced me along with the horrible lawsuit I filed against my parents, sister and their attorney in 1985 right after I was married. At that time, I discovered that all of them had been secretly using my social security number and a fraudulent grantor trust to evade taxes because I was in a lower tax bracket and they had more disposal income with this criminal and immoral tax scheme. At this time, my husband was very supportive.
In addition, the following wise, honest and compassionate people used their skills, education, experiences and resources to generously guide me and in doing so they reinforced the lessons my Grandfather Ben and Judge Sfekas taught me. Specifically, that I must live an honest and compassionate life which includes using my skills, education, experiences and resources to fight for my rights and those of others who are unable. These wonderful individual are:
1) Larry Rosenthal, my trust and estates professor at law school who also ran the trust and estates department of a major bank in Baltimore;
2) Conrad Nathan, one of the leaders and psychologists of the Jewish Big Brother and Big Sister League in Baltimore and;
3) Lyndal Shaneyfelt the renowned F.B.I. Special Agent, esteemed document examiner and expert who was part of the Warren Commission investigating the assassination of JFK and also a key witness. He came out of retirement to work on my case regarding all the backdated corporate stock certificates, forged tax returns, forged check signatures and other forgeries carried out by my parents, sister and their attorney. One day at his home in the Washington, D.C. area, Mr. Shaneyfelt allowed me to watch him work on one of the forgeries in my case. It was fascinating and he also stressed the importance of doing what is honest and compassionate and STANDING UP TO CORRUPTION.
I had two (2) very honest, compassionate and wise judges presiding over my case against my parents, sister and their attorney at different times named Judge Fader and Judge Levitz. After oral arguments, Judge Fader stated that according to the documents submitted that if I presented my case as intended pursuant to all the facts that he AS AN OFFICER OF THE COURT, would have a DUTY to report my parents, sister and their attorney to the criminal division. Then they will be heavily sanctioned and probably end up in jail. Accordingly, this wise and compassionate judge recommended that all of us go into the hallway and try to settle this case. (I really wish we had Judges like this today).
Well, the case was settled and it was also agreed to be sealed where the file can only be obtained with a court order because my parents, sister and their attorney were obviously so embarrassed and ashamed. I should have not agreed to seal the file but my husband and I wanted to begin a family and enjoy our married life without having this lawsuit which was carried on for the first four (4) years of our marriage.
However, my case helped change what is known as “the kiddie trust laws” so parents can no longer use and abuse their children as my parents did.
All of these incidences have had a significant influence on my perspectives on life. I have seen many people who are materially very wealthy but are so miserable because they live their life in the World of Corruption, trying to prey upon innocent, vulnerable people. They refuse to use their skills and talents to TEACH innocent, vulnerable children and adults how to use their own special skills and experiences so they can reach their BEAUTIFUL POTENTIAL that God has given each one of us which was not to be slaves and used and abused by these predators. Many of these children have never experienced Love which is so sad.
Continuing with my story of how I stated my movement; when I refused to go along with my now very successful husband’s Fraudulent Student Loan Scheme, he started to tell our children lies about me and encouraged them to speak and act very disrespectfully to me. He, himself, also began saying very abusive things to me.
Consequently, I got very sick and developed seizures and had to be hospitalized for a few days and medicated. However, my seizures continued along with the abusive behaviors of my husband and my children who were imitating him and following his orders to verbally abuse me. I later found out in therapy that this is all very characteristic of the domestic terrorism called Parental Alienation which commonly occurs at the time of divorce.
Parental Alienation is a form of domestic terrorism along with abuse, emotional and physical torture, distress and oppression with the very malicious use of lies, schemes, manipulation, intimidation and brainwashing to manipulate children including teen and adult children to believe their Fit, Loving, Law-abiding Mother or Father should be hated and alienated from their life like they too are getting divorced.
[Dr. Baker, A. (2010); “Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome: Breaking the Ties That Bind;” Kruk, E. (2013). Psychology Today; “The Impact of Parental Alienation on Children;” Stephen Fried, bestselling author http://www.palienation.org/the-new-rabbi-by-s-friedchpt-2-…/; Sun Tzu, (1910, first English Translation) The Art of War; Downs, George W. (1994) Collective Security Beyond the Cold War, University of Michigan; http://www.wisegeek.org/what-is-a-divide-and-conquer-strate…; http://www.palienation.org/videos/; http://www.palienation.org/]
Parental Alienation has become an epidemic problem in the United States. It the intentional and malicious destruction of the companionship which a loving, nurturing, compassionate, law-abiding Mother like me shared with my children, commonly occurring at the time of divorce so the parent who intentionally and maliciously creates the parental alienation like my evil husband and father Mark Hassman and those aiding and abetting him, can profit from the divorce by keeping the Mother and her Children in a state of shock and emotional torture, terror and distress.
Thus, the Wife who is also the loving, law-abiding Mother of the divorcing spouses’ children is by their design so psychologically, emotionally, physically and financially terrorized, tortured and distraught that SHE IS UNABLE TO SEE STRAIGHT AND FOCUS HER MIND.
Therefore, she reasonably relies on the fiduciary duty and legal duty of her husband; her law firm; his law firm; judges; the court-appointed therapist; religious organizations and their leaders; nonprofit organizations and their leaders; other attorneys and other United States leaders and organizations to follow the law and any oaths of office due to their state and/or federal licenses and positions they hold.
However, as my divorce judgment and other legal documents prove, they lied, cheated and deceived me so they could profit by stealing and laundering my fifty percent (50%) share of the marital assets, retirement, income and other property I should have received, not them. My divorce judgment shows on its face that this is what has happened. However, I did not realize this financial aspect for several years because I was so distraught due to being alienated from my children because… The fraudulent divorce judgment illegally and immorally denied me of custody and visitation and invalid restraining orders were issued against me too so I could not attend my children’s graduations, birthdays and other celebrations since my husband was there. Again, I later learned these are common schemes used in Parental Alienation situations so the loving, law-abiding Mother is terrorized and made so distraught that she often gets very sick and cannot defend her legal rights and they just keep all of her millions of dollars of assets, income and other property she should have received from the divorce.
MY CONCERN WAS MY CHILDREN AND I WANTED TO REUNITE WITH THEM.
TO MY GREAT HORROR, when I contacted many in our society such as : 1) prominent nonprofit organizations including religious institutions, schools and others, the nonprofit organizations’ leaders and members; many judges, law firms; the court-appointed therapist and business executives;
ALL refused to help me a loving, law-abiding Mother reunite with my three children who I raised as the full-time stay at home Mother for about eighteen (18) years even though I am known as an honest, loving, law-abiding Woman and Mother.
Thus far, I have been alienated from now for ten (10) years. This is what the facts continue to prove. I have become a part of something which is much bigger than reuniting with my Children which is what I initially began doing. I have even experienced sexual harassment from Rabbi David Wolpe of Sinai Temple but neither they nor any of these others mentioned will address this issue either.
My health has come back enough since being separated since 2008 and moving to Los Angeles which removed me from the abusive environment which was terrorizing me so that I have been able to use my education, skills, and experiences to file State and Federal lawsuits to try to rectify these harms and change the law again.
Yesterday, I had a hearing where my husband is alleging that I violated these invalid restraining orders because when I emailed him legal documents, I also asked him again for our children’s current contact information. I can’t afford both financially and emotionally to keep hiring private detectives to obtain this information only to have my Children scared to communicate with me; scared that they will be abused even more so they just ignore my efforts. One private investigator was threatened by my husband who told lies about him so this investigator had to go to the state licensing board and defend his investigator license and prove my husband’s lies.
This investigator refuses to work for me again because he is afraid of my husband’s threats. This is deemed Obstruction of Justice and also other criminal acts.
Also, the presiding judge, who is also the judge who signed my fraudulent divorce judgment and issued and has enforced invalid restraining orders against me, who I cannot get removed from the case, STILL refuses to order that I be given my children’s contact information. Instead, she said yesterday that at the hearing in December, I may be declared a felon for violating a restraining order for asking for my children’s contact information. This is outrageous.
I really think my children have either COMMITTED SUICIDE or ARE IN SOME MENTAL HOSPITAL or somewhere these defendants do not want me to know about. I have photos of how my son was forced to sleep outside on a bare mattress without any covers and he has a heart condition too. I also helped our daughter cope with her kidney issue. We were part of a research project at John’s Hopkins Children Center in Baltimore and because of her and my efforts in the project, medical science has changed the way they treat children with her same kidney issue.
I will keep peacefully fighting to expose these facts which help others and also should bring about important changes to help many Mothers and their children who have been sold into the sex trade, drug trade and forced to commit other criminal activity as our nonprofit organizations and our leaders PRETEND to be honest and just but are part of the problem of Parental Alienation and these other crimes which commonly go along with this terror.
These so-called leaders, organizations and member have become the CURRENT DAY HITLER because they intentionally and deliberately destroy love and family and steal and launder the assets of loving Mothers at the time of divorce as my lawsuits prove. They could easily use their positions and resources to give lectures, publish, have classes, discussions and other educational events to educate society about Parental Alienation AND also help loving, law-abiding Mothers and their Children reunite. This is corruption on a major scale in the establishment.
The Parental Alienation came first which allowed all my defendants and those aiding and abetting them to conspire to deceive and cheat me because I could not see straight and relied on their fiduciary duties to treat me honestly and fairly.
Overall, has it been relatively smooth? If not, what were some of the struggles along the way?
No, the judges do not follow the law and rule with authority not reason so I have to keep filing appeals when I should have received justice already. I have been alienated from my children for ten (10) years now without any tests proving that I am a danger or unfit.
This is also against the law.
I have a job but have received welfare which is disgraceful because if I would have received my 50% of my marital assets, retirement, income and other property I would not need this.
I constantly get hacked on my computer and telephone by Rabbi David Wolpe which has been going on for several years. He tries to intimidate me and everyone listed above just ignores my complaints including Sinai Temple which is where he is employed and all other Jewish organizations. He has also sexually harassed me by telling me repeatedly in emails that he wants to be “sensitized anew.” Not even the Jewish Journal will write about this as my emails from them prove.
Most of all it is horrible because I miss my children.
Parental Alienation Solutions – what should we know? What do you guys do best? What sets you apart from the competition?
I initially started Parental Alienation Solutions to keep in touch with my three children who had been threatened from contacting me and responding to my communications. As my therapist recommended, my website and Facebook page would enable us to stay in touch or at least enable them to know I was coping and I was writing posts to help them cope too.
I have written all the website pages and write all the Facebook posts. Often people comment too. I am most proud that I have been able to help others understand and cope with Parental Alienation which I never expected to happen.
Also, due to my website, I was on the Dr. Phil show about Parental Alienation with my husband, his mistress who he alleges is his wife, and my daughter. (They were paid to appear on the show, I was not). However, my young adult daughter lied on the show but we were able to get therapy so I was grateful for Dr. Phil.
However, several weeks after the show my daughter was so brainwashed that she demanded that I remove my website and Facebook page or she will not go to the therapy so graciously given to us by Dr. Phil. I tried to explain to her that this was not reasonable and that she could choose not to read my website and Facebook posts but they were helping others. Also I have freedom as an adult and I am not setting a precedent where I have to defer to her before I do things.
My husband and the others mentioned above were trying to control me through my daughter, this is called transference. Well, unfortunately we never had the therapy and I have not seen any of my children and spent quality time with them for 10 years now.
What sets us apart from others are all the State and Federal lawsuits I have filed to try to end Parental Alienation by changing our laws and the crooked business policies of nonprofit organizations and others which continue to promote this evil and terror. I write about Parental Alienation from a very current legal perspective because I discuss on my posts judicial decisions and other relevant legal issues, NOT giving legal advice but from my very current legal experiences. This is very helpful for others to understand.
What is “success” or “successful” for you?
I personally define success as using your individual skills, special talents, education, experiences and resources to help make our world a better place for ourselves and ALSO others who are also honest, kind, and compassionate AND live in the World of Love. Not living in the World of Corruption where you become a predator trying to use, abuse and take advantage of others for your own selfish and greedy purposes.
• Website: www.PAlienation.org
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationSolutions
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