Here is my UPDATED POST on MITIGATING CIRCUMSTANCES based upon some comments I have received and additional facts too.
First, it is VERY IMPORTANT for alienated children, teens and young adults to understand this information so they are NOT AFRAID to speak out by telling the TRUTH instead of SUFFERING SILENTLY WHILE CONTINUING TO BE ABUSED, TORTURED, TERRORIZED AND THREATENED.
YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT YOU:
—– WILL NOT, WILL NOT, WILL NOT —-
GO TO JAIL OR BE PUNISHED for hiding or participating in illegal and immoral acts against your Mother or anyone else; even the IRS for tax evasion!!!
***Please stop believing their lies because this is how Abusers control their Victims as many reputable psychologists, therapists, authors and other experts have PROVEN.
*** My parents did this to me for many, many years.
I AM A TRAUMA VICTIM SURVIVOR, twice now: Once with my parents and now again with my husband MARK HASSMAN and all the other defendants regarding Parental Alienation and my Fraudulent Divorce Contract.
Alienated Children of All Ages; please understand what MY FACTS and PHOTOGRAPHS show and understand they do not include similar facts and photographs from many experts about millions of other alienated children, teens and young adults and their similar situations.
MY CHILDREN, alone have been threatened by:
1. JUDGE CLAUDIA SILBAR who swore under oath as court transcripts show that she had an ILLEGAL, SECRET MEETING WITH ONLY MY CHILDREN AND HUSBAND IN HER COURT CHAMBERS that was NOT on the docket and did NOT include me, the Mother, a party to the lawsuit involving the illegal and fraudulent divorce contract which includes acts of Parental Alienation. This is ASIDE FROM SIGNING A FRAUDULENT DIVORCE CONTRACT AND ISSUING AND REFUSING TO RESCIND UNLAWFUL CIVIL RESTRAINING ORDERS AGAINST ME SO I COULD NOT AND STILL CANNOT EVEN ATTEND MY CHILDREN’S GRADUATIONS AND OTHER EVENTS AND CELEBRATIONS IF THEIR FATHER AND HIS MISTRESS ARE THERE.
There is overwhelming evidence showing more acts of Parental Alienation by this judge and other defendants in my lawsuit in the Court of Appeal case #B267984. My case is expected to go before the US Supreme Court too resulting in the LAW BEING CHANGED so this abusive behavior will be mitigated and hopefully eliminated.
2. RABBIS including RABBI DAVID WOLPE and ALL OTHER RABBIS AND JEWISH ORGANIZATIONS IN THE UNITED STATES NATIONWIDE, yes NATIONWIDE have created and perpetuated Parental Alienation for over 8 years now in just MY case but for many DECADES in many other cases as other evidence shows. (http://www.palienation.org/donation).This is how these so-called Jews have been profiting while taking advantage of vulnerable Mothers and her Children. Sick and very evil as any sane person knows;
3. My Children have also been threatened by the non-profit private school CATE SCHOOL;
4. Their father’s mistress MIKEL SANDERS-PERSKY;
5. All the other defendants including Law Firms, The Court-Appointed Therapist, Executives, Joint Venture Partners, many Religious Organizations and Others.
6. And of course their father MARK HASSMAN.
The facts show MY CHILDREN have been used by these sick Abusers to:
• Hide assets and income from their loving, law-abiding, honest Mother and the IRS since the time of divorce. (My Parents, also sick abusers, tried to make me hide their assets and income too.);
• Commit other illegal and corrupt acts like:
1. Being involved in: a Student Loan Fraud Scheme;
2. Being involved in a Real Estate Fraud Scheme;
3. Forced to sign contracts and co-sign on contracts;
4. Forced to remain SILENT;
5. Not being allowed to seek therapy with a competent therapist who keeps their session private and confidential from everyone, even their father MARK HASSMAN.
This is called SAFE HAVEN THERAPY which the corrupt court-appointed therapist ALAN LIBERMAN, PhD refused to practice. Thus, based upon professional advice; I ended the sessions because they were a farce and not in my Son’s or My best interest and just another COMMON SCHEME of Abusers who commit and perpetuate Parental Alienation; they try to control the therapy so it is not effective but harmful. This is very, very sick and evil as any reasonable person knows.
6. Not being allowed to contact their loving, law-abiding Mother for 8 years now, even on Mother’s Day. Not even to tell her how they are and what they are doing. This is very evil. Think how my Children and millions like them feel.
Second, it is very important to understand that I have been told professionally that it is irrational and unreasonable for my Children to not have contacted me for over eight (8) years now since I am a loving, law-abiding, honest person who has made many worthwhile and positive accomplishments including helping them thrive in many ways.
(Any sane and reasonable person knows this too).
***Now, since it has been over 8 years when the well-documented Parental Alienation began; the brainwashing, intimidation, manipulations and abuses are VERY CLEAR and BECOME CLEARER AS TIME GOES ON because it is extremely unreasonable that my Children have not contacted me since I am a loving, law-abiding, honest person who helped them thrive in many ways until they SUDDENLY alienated me at the time of the divorce WITHOUT ANY REASONABLE OR RATIONAL BASIS.
***During the past eight (8) years my Children who are now young adults have not even contacted me to AT LEAST SAY: “HI, I AM FINE SO DON’T WORRY MOM.”
Instead, my Children ACT LIKE I AM DEAD.
As professionals have told me, this behavior and their other behaviors show my Children have characteristics of those who are suffering from Parental Alienation Syndrome.
*** AS TIME GOES ON AND MY CHILDREN STILL DO NOT CONTACT ME AND WANT TO RESOLVE THE ALIENATION; it becomes more and more obvious that they are suffering from Parental Alienation Syndrome.
***My overwhelming facts which include photographs show my Children are controlled, abused, tortured, terrorized and THREATENED which is when mitigating circumstances apply. This is the situation MITIGATING CIRCUMSTANCES were intended for.
IF MY CHILDREN WERE NOT CONTROLLED and THREATENED THEY WOULD CONTACT ME:
1. At least to say hi and
2. Tell me they are fine and what they are doing
3. Since they know I am worried about them as any compassionate Mother would be FOR OVER 8 YEARS NOW.
I have in an email that my children were ordered to treat me like I am dead and facts show several of the defendants refused to allow them to have therapy to address these issues despite my many requests.
Think my husband and his mistress are sick? What about Judge Silbar?
What about all the other defendants?
All this overwhelming evidence shows more incrimination by the defendants and unequivocally WARRANTS MITIGATING CIRCUMSTANCES for my Children as any reasonable person knows.
The Parental Alienation Syndrome becomes more and more obvious as time goes on and my Children’s irrational and unreasonable alienation of me, their loving, law-abiding Mother continues.
I just wanted to make this clear because now since it has been over 8 years when the alienation suddenly began; the abuse, manipulations and intimidation have become more and more obvious.
So, MY CHILDREN and other Alienation Children:
1. Reach out to your loving, law-abiding alienated Mother (father);
2. Don’t be concerned because you will NOT be held liable due to mitigating circumstances;
******3. Don’t let anyone try to convince you that you will be blamed and go to jail; YOU WON’T; they will be going to jail, not you.
Third, it is important to understand that Dr. Phil is not licensed a doctor but an entertainer and EVERYONE’S ACTIONS ON THE SHOW COUPLED WITH THE FACTS WHICH INCLUDE PHOTOGRAPHS SHOW WHAT MANY EXPERTS BELIEVE ARE CHARACTERISTICS OF PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME AND IT IS MORE AND MORE OBVIOUS AS TIME GOES ON.
Fourth, MY DAUGHTER’S BEHAVIOR FOR REFUSING TO GO TO THE THERAPIST DR. PHIL SO GRACIOUSLY PROVIDED FOR US IS ONLY ONE OF MANY EXAMPLES SHOWING SHE HAS CHARACTERISTICS OF THOSE SUFFERING FROM PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME. She showed even more characteristics of those who have Parental Alienation Syndrome by her following acts:
My Daughter gave me an ultimatum that she would only go to these therapy sessions Dr. Phil so graciously provided IF I took my website and facebook page down.
I tried to reasonably explain to her that this was not a rational or reasonable request because both my website and facebook page are helpful to others. She can just CHOOSE to not read them if she wants but why deprive others who want to read them?
PLUS, her behavior is called TRANSFERENCE which is how millions of sick, controlling alienating fathers like my husband MARK HASSMAN, COMMONLY behave in situations of Parental Alienation.
Accordingly, I tried to explain to my Daughter that I, as an adult have FREEDOM to do as I choose and I WILL NOT SET A PRECEDENT that I have to check with her every time I decide to do something like start a website or facebook page or anything else she decides she does not like that I am doing. I will then be CONTROLLED BY HER which is not reasonable or rational.
As an adult, it is MY PREROGATIVE to do what I choose, just as it is hers since she is now an adult, providing what we choose to do is legal and moral as I taught her.
I also set a living example for her to see, along with her brothers of what it means to live a moral and honest life. It is THEIR PREROGATIVE as to whether they choose to listen, watch or ignore me; I can’t control what they choose to do. I can only control myself.
Fifth, my daughter continued to show more characteristics of those suffering from Parental Alienation Syndrome since I refused to accept her ultimatum.
She then YELLED AT ME and refused to have a civil discussion. She told me she would never talk to me again. As any reasonable person knows, this is not reasonable behavior and as reputable experts know, this is a common behavior of someone suffering from Parental Alienation Syndrome.
Sixth, my daughter since the day she was born up until the time of the divorce was in great shape and participated in many sports and fun, enriching activities.
Since the time of the divorce she has gained a lot of weight and has not been able to lose it. Carrying all this extra weight, since she is only about 5 feet tall, is very, very unhealthy for her. This is also another sign, COMBINED WITH ALL THE OTHERS, showing she has characteristics of those who have Parental Alienation Syndrome.
All this evidence, and there is much more, clearly shows My Daughter, along with my Sons are suffering from PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME AS ANY REPUTABLE AND REASONABLE EXPERT KNOWS and they drastically need reputable safe haven therapy with an honest, therapist. I tried to arrange therapy for my Children many times but was unsuccessful… It is also common behavior of Abusers who are controlling the Children in a Parental Alienation situation to refuse to allow them to have therapy. They do not want the truth of their abuse, terror and torture to be known.
I have had years of therapy regarding Parental Alienation and still do with several experts WHO WORKED TOGETHER WITH ME which includes reading many books by reputable professionals on this subject.
ALSO, WHY WOULD MY CHILDREN BEHAVE THIS WAY IF NOT THREATENED?
WHY ARE THEY EVEN REFUSING TO HAVE A CIVIL CONVERSATION WITH ME THEIR MOTHER?
WHAT ARE THEY AFRAID OF? Their father? Repercussions?
***My Children are very well educated and very competent adults and each one has a beautiful potential if they can get away from this abuse and corruption and bring my Motherly love back into their life.
***Nothing can replace the love of a Mother.
I rest my case and to all the defendants, you should throw yours out and HONESTLY and FERVENTLY JOIN ME in ending Parental Alienation and Fraudulent Divorce Contracts which are both epidemic problems in the United States today.
This would be showing that you have now chosen to be reasonable and sane. Admit your mistakes, apologize and compensate those you have harmed and help make these positive changes in our society today and for future generations.
If not, you risk going to jail, having other sanctions and ruining your reputations and legacies.
Truth and Love and I also believe God will prevail; not abuse, lies, manipulations and other corrupt acts.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice, it is based upon my knowledge and experiences.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org