I am so glad I received these comments because they very clearly illustrate the EVIL THOUGHT PROCESS AND ACTIONS of evil predators and terrorists which include those who create and/or promote the domestic terrorism of Parental Alienation. I could not have explained it better.
To begin, evil predators and terrorists try to control others with their AUTHORITY and DO NOT ACT WITH REASON. This is why history has PROVEN that it is very difficult to NEGOTIATE with TERRORISTS since they do not think and act reasonably and just want to rule with their AUTHORITY by giving orders and ultimatums. Here are the comments I received and my responses and some additional thoughts so millions of us suffering from Parental Alienation will understand how these evil predators and terrorists THINK which drives their evil, criminal and immoral ACTIONS.
Callie Smith wrote: I’m really trying to sympathize. But, what you say to and about your kids changes with each post. Here you state “they allowed themselves to be indoctrinated.” Just a few posts ago, you stated that this wasn’t their fault and they only stayed away based on fear of their alienating Father. You post letters that sometimes beg them to get in touch with you. Other times you write posts that threaten to name them in your lawsuits since they are now adults and you feel are therefore culpable.
So which is it? Are you the loving, understanding mother that doesn’t blame them and just wants them in your life?
Or are you the threatening, vindictive mother that BLAMES THEM for being indoctrinated?? Pick a side and stay on it. It would work better.
Parental Alienation Solutions wrote: Callie, you apparently do not understand. There comes a point when ADULTS have to be RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS because this is REASONABLE and JUSTICE.
My children are now 24, 26 and 28 years old and SUDDENLY STOPPED communicating with me which has gone on for ten (10) years now for unexplained reason(s).
1) If ADULT CHILDREN ADOPT CRIMINAL WAYS as their own way of life, they have to be held RESPONSIBLE as our LAWS mandate.
2) Even the TORAH says this in Exodus, Parashas Yisro. ADULT CHILDREN must be punished for carrying on crooked and immoral acts when they have a choice and know better.
3) Do you think MY NOW ADULT CHILDREN have a choice and know right from wrong especially with my website, facebook page, court cases and other acts promoting an END to Parental Alienation and REPEATEDLY welcoming them to contact me? They are COLLEGE GRADUATES too and I raised them with MY values and character as their stay-at-home Mother.
4) THE QUESTION IS: Are my adult children so brainwashed they have become walking dead people or robots OR have they become evil predators themselves who are committing crimes against me which I can prove? Menaces of society must be punished so society doesn’t continue to be harmed as our laws and also reason demand.
5) ANOTHER QUESTION IS: Have they become so terrorized and threatened that they are AFRAID to disobey these evil predators which demand that they treat me, their loving, law-abiding Mother, like I am dead?
***There can be MITIGATING CIRCUMSTANCES due to brainwashing and threats but when ADULT ALIENATED CHILDREN (and all adults) ADOPT CRIMINAL WAYS as THEIR OWN WAY OF LIFE, our LAWS and also the TORAH demand that they be held accountable so they do not destroy our society. This is also REASONABLE. Callie, I hope you understand now.
Anyone who doesn’t understand my beautiful values and character as my actions prove and wants to harm me and/or alienate me due to false and made-up reason(s) WITHOUT having a discussion in about ten (10) years is not being reasonable.
Thus, I REASONABLY do not want them to be part of my life because they will only make me sick again.
********IN OTHER WORDS, if my children or any of my defendants and those aiding and abetting them don’t want to be REASONABLE by having a conversation for 10 years now and instead want to KEEP BELIEVING LIES and harming and alienating me with their criminal and immoral acts, then so be it. I cannot control what they choose to do; I can only try to help them understand the IMPORTANCE OF BEING REASONABLE.
I am exposing the truth and as Judge Sfekas taught me: “Let the facts speak for themselves.”
Also, if any professionals don’t want to REASONABLY help end Parental Alienation and REASONABLY help reunite loving, law-abiding alienated parents and their children; I can’t control them either. BUT, why would they WANT TO do this? Is there some ulterior motive??? “Let the facts speak for themselves.” They clearly are.
*****ALSO A CONSPIRACY CAN BE PROVEN BY CIRCUMSTANTIAL EVIDENCE AND MANY CAN BE HELD LIABLE UNDER RICO.
Evil is known to beget Evil. Thus, if evil predators are HELD RESPONSIBLE for their corrupt and immoral acts, then we will stop the evil from SPREADING and destroying honest, loving, alienated children and other vulnerable people and OUR SOCIETY. This is why it is so important to PROMOTE OUR REVOLUTION to END PARENTAL ALIENATION not only for ourselves but also for future generations.
***ANY REASONABLE, COMPASSIONATE PERSON DOES NOT WANT to have a world of evil predators and a world without Love, Family, Equal Rights, Justice and Democracy for ALL.
This brings me to the next comment by this person. This is her comment regarding MY PROPOSAL TO END PARENTAL ALIENATION involving the CONFESSED JUDGMENT: Where my still legal husband Mark Hassman, Judge Silbar who signed and filed the fraudulent, invalid divorce judgment, lawyers, business people, religious leaders and others who have created and/or have been promoting Parental Alienation SHOULD WANT to sign a confessed judgment and specifically list;
i. the lies they told my children or aided and abetted others in telling them;
ii. that the restraining orders requested and issued against me had no legal and rational basis and therefore I should have BEEN ABLE to attend their graduations, birthdays and other celebrations. I was and still am very upset I missed these very special occasions as any loving Mother would be;
iii. I was also illegally and immoral denied custody and visitation which very seriously upset me and still upsets me.
This way, ANY RESERVATIONS my children have about reuniting with me, should be REASONABLY AND OBJECTIVELY resolved especially with their father, Judge Silbar, lawyers, business people, religious leaders and others explaining that they were wrong for creating and/or promoting the very well-documented Parental Alienation. Now they SHOULD WANT to use their skills to help me and my children HEAL by helping to reasonably and diligently end the Parental Alienation. THIS IS VERY REASONABLE and also shows COMPASSIONATE. Here is her comment regarding this proposal with my comments in parentheses.
Callie Smith wrote: I’m not sure I understand. Is this your legal proposal? Just because someone SHOULD do something, doesn’t mean they will. Your children are now adults. It’s not possible to legislate a mandate that your old spouse, lawyers, a judge, businesspersons and religious leaders SHOULD help you reunite with your children. I don’t think this is something that can be adjudicated either?! Is what they are doing by not helping wrong, probably. Do they have to help you though? …No? Even if it’s the right thing and you really think they SHOULD, which you make clear, they still don’t have to.
You use this logic throughout the post. They “SHOULD WANT” to help, they “should want to SIGN A CONFESSED AGREEMENT,” with your specific wording. But, what they SHOULD do and what they must do are two very different things. There is nothing in the law that says they MUST do these things you WANT them to do.
You go on…
They should “agree to use their skills” to help your Parental Alienation cause. Why? Different people support different causes. Just because they are family members, judges & lawyers, community or business members does not mean they MUST support the same cause that you have chosen to make your life’s mission. Everyone has a choice at what causes and reforms they support. No one is required to join you in yours. They don’t HAVE to write letters to Congress, or give speeches on your behalf just because you believe the SHOULD do this! If someone does join you, it would be their CHOICE not because you thought they SHOULD and not because you MADE them.
(Remember, A CONSPIRACY CAN BE PROVEN BY CIRCUMSTANTIAL EVIDENCE AND MANY CAN BE HELD LIABLE UNDER RICO also MANY OF THESE PROFESSIONALS and NONPROFIT and other ORGANIZATIONS HAVE PERSONAL AND PROFESSIONAL OATHS AND RESPONSIBILITIES.)
You believe “your requests should be fervently accepted” not because of the letter of the law, but because you expect…rather DEMAND….this if anyone that wants to be part of your life.
(NO, IT IS THE LAW BECAUSE a conspiracy can be proven with circumstantial evidence and also many of these professionals and organizations have personal and professional oaths and responsibilities.)
You want to be RIGHT more than you want your family back; to include your children, in laws, sibling and parent. (No, I want to be REASONABLE and associate with other honest, reasonable law-abiding people).
There is simply no legislature or judicial action that you can use to MAKE them do these things. This proposal does nothing, changes nothing, and ultimately accomplished nothing. (No, a conspiracy can be proven with circumstantial evidence and also many of these professionals and organizations have personal and professional oaths and responsibilities.)
At age 60…I would personally drop the rhetoric – ALL of it – just to show my kids how much so truly want to see them. (I only want to see them if they are honest, compassionate, reasonable people because I reasonably do not want to get sick again from their abusive behavior and ultimatums. For example, my daughter unreasonably told me at the Dr. Phil show that she would never talk to me again unless I took down my website and facebook page. I tried to reasonably explain to her that I am not her slave and it is very unreasonable for her to demand this.).
What do you plan to do when the last of your court cases gets thrown out? (There are many options to promote truth and justice; especially for innocent children. To me this sounds like a FAUSTIAN BARGAIN, where you believe that you can remake reality to suit your desires). [end of her comment]
Many terrorists and evil predators are SO EAGER to gain immediate power, money and control that they WILL CHOOSE TO illegally, immorally, shamefully and disgracefully prey upon vulnerable Mothers and their children at the time of divorce and thereafter as my facts clearly prove. They even have POLICIES to promote Parental Alienation as my facts prove.
• EVIL PREDATORS AND TERRORISTS KNOW THEY ARE EVIL
• THEY KNOW THEY HAVE SOLD THEIR SOUL TO THE DEVIL FOR THE ADVANTAGE OF power, money and control and other “benefits.”
• THEY KNOW THEY ARE WASTING THEIR GREAT POTENTIAL AND TALENTS
• THEY HAVE CRUEL HEARTS, are VERY CORRUPT and are HIDING THEIR OWN SHAME, ANGER and HATE.
• DUE TO THEIR OUT OF CONTROL EGOS WHICH THEY DON’T WANT TO LEARN HOW TO CONTROL; THEY REFUSE TO GET THE HELP THEY NEED SO THEY CAN LEARN TO LOVE and MAKE OTHER VERY IMPORTANT POSITIVE CHANGES.
*****So what are our two (2) choices?
1) To become part of their evil, corrupt world and become an evil predator and terrorist and recruit others to become evil too;
2) To keep living in the World of Love using our own special talents, education, skills and experiences to expose the truth and keep helping REASONABLE, COMPASSIONATE PEOPLE who want to HEAL THE WORLD, and make our world a better place for other loving, law-abiding people; KNOWING GOD IS BY OUR SIDE?
To me and those who PROUDLY live with me in the World of Love, the choice is very clear; I will NEVER become an evil predator. If my purpose in life is to expose this truth and keeping OUR REVOLUTION THRIVING to END the domestic terrorism of PARENTAL ALIENATION, then I am very grateful to have been given this wonderful OPPORTUNITY.
I HOPE I AM WRONG BUT IT CLEARLY APPEARS… since none of my three now adult children have tried to contact me for ten (10) years now, and did not even try to contact me on my 60th birthday, that they have CHOSEN to become evil predators themselves and therefore must bear the consequences of their choices as adults and as the law demands.
JUDGE SFEKAS taught me and any REASONABLE PERSON KNOWS:
“Justice must apply to all of us in our democratic republic of the United States.”
******* In sum…I LOVE MY CHILDREN DEARLY but as a REASONABLE, RESPONSIBLE ADULT, I cannot allow them to make me sick again or become menaces to society NOR SHOULD ANY REASONABLE, RESPONSIBLE ADULT WANT ME TO. It isn’t always easy being a Mother but I will not sacrifice my good values for anyone, including my children.
I hope this post clearly illustrates the evil thought process of AUTHORITY and not reason which has been used by evil predators and terrorists throughout history.
BE PROUD for standing up to evil predators and terrorists as millions of brave people stood up against Adolph Hitler and my GRANDFATHER BEN taught me that without our good values and character and also love, we have nothing.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org
Parental Alienation is a form of abuse that destroys the sacred bond between a loving parent and their child at the time of a divorce. (Child includes teen and adult children)