I am writing this post because I am reaching out for financial help. As the famous book “The Art of War” teaches; evil, narcissistic people do not reasonably collaborate. They try to control those who do not “obey them” by destroying them BOTH mentally and financially to “teach them a lesson” and “bring them inline by making them obedient.”
Since I refused to go along with the criminal STUDENT LOAN FRAUD SCHEME of my evil, crooked still legal husband MARK HASSMAN ( as explained in the recent post regarding straw purchases); he has maliciously and criminally been trying to destroy me since 2008.
My very evil, beyond any words still legal husband MARK HASSMAN did such a good job destroying me mentally due to his acts of Parental Alienation that I developed seizures, had to be hospitalized and spent years in therapy trying to learn how to cope with the horrible devastation of having your children believe you no longer love them and that you have suddenly turned into some kind of monster and due to invalid restraining orders must learn to live without them.
This MENTAL DEVASTATION was all part of the “formulated litigation strategy” of the law firm representing evil, beyond any words, MARK HASSMAN named SEASTROM & SEASTROM; and was aided and abetted by my attorney PAMELA SHAFFER, ESQ.; COMMISSIONER and JUDGE LON HURWITZ, JUDGE CLAUDIA SILBAR, THE LAW OFFICES OF ALAN SHIFMAN and others.
The founder and senior attorney for the law firm SEASTROM & SEASTROM evil and crooked PHILIP SEASTROM swore in his PERSONAL DECLARATION executed on August 4, 2015 the following:
“During the dissolution process, Seastrom, on behalf of Mr. Hassman, filed such things as REQUESTS TO REDUCE SPOUSAL SUPPORT and RESTRAINING ORDERS AGAINST MS. HASSMAN, all of which were granted.”
However, there has never been ANY legal basis stated for ANY of these requests AND the validity and legal basis used by judges to grant and enforce them EITHER.
Disgracefully, my attorney THE LAW OFFICE OF HARRIS GONZALEZ just stood by and did nothing when my spousal support was reduced to ZERO by JUDGE CLAUDIA SILBAR on April 2, 2014 WITHOUT MARK HASSMAN providing ANY financial documents proving this was necessary because he was “insolvent” as he swore and could not afford to pay my spousal support anymore; even though he has never declared personal bankruptcy.
This law firm, THE LAW OFFICE OF HARRIS GONZALEZ representing Me illegally did not request documents proving MARK HASSMAN’S alleged “insolvency” AND did not exercise its FIDUCIARY DUTY it owed me to help me obtain legally calculated spousal support.
As a result, for years I was without any spousal support and then it was increased not to what was stated in the divorce judgment of $4300/month but to $700/month WHILE MARK HASSMAN illegally purchased TWO LEXUS VEHICLES; A CONDOMINIUM; PLASTIC SURGERY FOR HIS MISTRESS and other LUXURIES as his Income and Expense Declarations filed in public records signed under penalty of perjury IRREFUTABLY PROVE.
It is against the law to ENCUMBER YOURSELF and OTHERS with luxuries claiming you are UNABLE to pay the court-ordered spousal support. This is reasonable and common sense too.
At the time of divorce, after being the full time stay-at-home Mother for about 18 years; I had to take out a student loan to update my skills because horrible beyond words MARK HASSMAN refused to disperse money to Me from the community estate which was under his control due to his Harvard business school education, his financial, accounting and investment licenses and experiences AND LEGALLY STILL IS TODAY. Its distribution remains a mystery which is why I am still legally married to this horrible person. The community estate must be dissolved before a divorce can be deemed valid which is also common sense. The community estate is considered a legal entity and its dissolution must be completely and accurately disclosed at the time of divorce. If it is not dissolved, the marital estate still exists.
Since being separated, I have worked in the legal profession and most recently for the past three years, I had a job taking care of a woman with Parkinson’s disease as her licensed caregiver. That job recently ended and I have been looking for permanent caregiving work.
In the meantime, TO REASONABLY MITIGATE MY DAMAGES, I EMAILED MARK HASSMAN asking him to give me my Legal Interest in the community estate since THE DIVORCE JUDGMENT PROVES ON ITS FACE, I received NOTHING and he took all of our assets, retirement accounts, annuities, homes, businesses, trust assets and other property and assets in violation of not only the law but also in violation of his FIDUCIARY DUTY he owes me to treat me honestly and fairly regarding divorce matters.
HOWEVER, ALL THE LAW FIRMS AND JUDGE SILBAR SIGNED OFF ON THIS DIVORCE JUDGMENT AND MANY OTHERS HAVE ENFORCED IT; REFUSING TO LEGALLY AND REASONABLY OVERTURN IT OR REVISE IT SO IT COMPLIES WITH OUR LAWS.
Many others who have the skills and ability to help me end this travesty have just stood by and done nothing; INCLUDING RELIGIOUS LEADERS and ORGANIZATIONS who are NONPROFITS because they are obligated to support the Health, Safety and Welfare of Society WHICH means helping to END PARENTAL ALIENATION; not standing by and watching it reoccur and DESTROY HUMANITY.
***A Wife and Mother is not a SLAVE. She is LEGALLY ENTITLED to RECEIVE her legal interest of fifty percent (50%) of the community estate.
Anyway, MARK HASSMAN acted like an evil predator and malicious criminal by filing a motion to be heard on October 5, 2018 before his “buddy” JUDGE CLAUDIA SILBAR claiming I violated some restraining order by emailing him to notify him that my three year job ended and I need my money and assets from our marriage of over 20 years which the divorce judgment PROVES he stole. What a guy!!!
All I can say is that this is how evil and malicious predators are because they ENJOY PROFITING from destroying the lives of others.
I live very frugally. I do not own a car, take public transportation and like most people in Los Angeles, I am worried about being able to pay my rent until I find a permanent job. Thus, if anyone wants to help me financially in ANY WAY, please send a check or money order to:
Sara Hassman, 2160 S. Beverly Glen Blvd. Los Angeles, CA 90025.
I would be very grateful and I promise you, I will be using it to pay my rent. I will also let you know when I receive a permanent job. If anyone knows of someone in need of a caregiver, let me know. I have wonderful references.
Maybe my evil horrible beyond words still legal husband MARK HASSMAN is happy because now; he may succeed in destroying me financially while he has STOLEN all of my money and assets along with others aiding and abetting him as the divorce judgment proves on its face. What a horrible way to live.
It was a miracle of GOD that I not only recovered emotionally enough to be capable of being the voice of OUR REVOLUTION to end PARENTAL ALIENATION but that also my legal skills came back enough so I could file lawsuits to set a legal precedent to end this epidemic problem of terror, torture, abuse and oppression.
Please if you can in anyway, help me financially until I am able to replace the job I had for three years. Many thanks, Sara
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;
Parental Alienation is a form of abuse that destroys the sacred bond between a loving parent and their child at the time of a divorce. (Child includes teen and adult children)