Is it possible for a person to die due to a lack of love and not notice it? In situations of Parental Alienation children of all ages are deprived of the love and companionship of their alienated Mother or Father and told horrific lies that they are no longer loved by them. Then the children believe the lies and hate their loving Mother or Father.
I became very sick from this and I still have difficulty coping at times. The parent creating the Parental Alienation along with the alienated children are not reasonable because they REFUSE to even have a civil discussion regarding the reason for the SUDDEN ALIENATION AT THE TIME OF DIVORCE.
They do not want to end the alienation because they are hiding the alienated Mother’s stolen assets and income while committing other criminal and immoral acts.
***Thus, we are creating a society of misguided, unloved children which is why Parental Alienation must be ended.***
The famous science fiction author Robert Heinlein wrote:
“Love is a condition where the happiness of another
is essential to your own.”
I agree with this and I also would add that people who share love (I do not mean sex) in family relationships and in friendships treat each other HONESTLY and discuss in a Civil Manner their differences.
TRUST is the basis of every loving relationship because if you cannot trust another you will not communicate openly with them.
Without open and honest communication the relationship will die which is what so horribly happens in Parental Alienation situations.
People who share love (I do not mean sex) should be able to resolve their differences with open and honest communication UNLESS one chooses to change his or her basic values.
For instance, they decide they suddenly want to commit crimes like carrying out a student loan fraud scheme; tax fraud by hiding income and assets or other criminal acts.
They may use the excuse that “everyone does it” or “this is the way of the world” but at the end of the day; they are harming another and themselves too because subconsciously will feel shame; guilt and anger. Plus, they are setting a horrible example. They also commonly keep secrets because people generally hide what they are ashamed of.
People who share love want to know the truth so they can live honestly with each other. This includes not telling someone what they want to hear when you know this is a lie which will deceive and betray them.
By doing this, you will lose the loving feeling and live a life feeling sad, leading a double life and just existing. Often those who lie and betray others also harden their heart so they will not feel emotions; including the harms they cause others.
Sometimes they rationalize that they are ENTITLED to harm others based upon their irrational thoughts which their drugs and alcohol can induce.
No one should want to harm another; we should try to help them UNDERSTAND the errors of their ways and provide them with opportunities to change. Most never will but you can sue them if they have inflicted upon you serious harms. I believe GOD will punish them in due time while we move forward making progress doing positive things like trying to End Parental Alienation.
As the famous science fiction author Robert Heinlein also wrote: Choices help the soul grow; NOT OBEDIENCE. Thus, a parent can teach and guide their children but as children grow up they must make their own choices and also face the consequences. This is independence and freedom.
If you respect and are proud of your choices; you will have self-esteem and can love because you have learned to love yourself and the person you have become.
On the other hand, if you are ashamed of your choices and the person you have become: you can acknowledge them; compensate those you have harmed; and learn to change your though process, habits and behaviors. Then you will no longer feel shame, anger and unhappiness or feel the need to keep secrets. You will have wonderful feelings of pride, happiness and self-esteem and may even be open to love.
Dreadfully, often people who live without love and have hardened their heart too use sex to hurt others; not to bring another and themselves happiness. They are also curiosity seekers and like challenges.
They practice their own brand of evil by “charming” vulnerable people to cooperate with the inevitable while they act like a Martyr for spending their valuable time “teaching” others. Sex to them is a spiritual attribute just done; there are no feelings of emotion. (Unfortunately, this has been a common news story lately).
Often people laugh because it will stop them from hurting. However, as any reasonable person knows there is nothing funny about creating and/or promoting the terror, torture, abuse and oppression of Parental Alienation which is destroying Humanity because it is depriving millions of Love.
Here is a beautiful song which explains the importance of an “Everlasting Love.”
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org
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Parental Alienation is a form of abuse that destroys the sacred bond between a loving parent and their child at the time of a divorce. (Child includes teen and young adult children)