It is Important to develop your own Ideas and not Say things to Please Others
It is important to develop your own positive thoughts, philosophies and ideology and not say things to please others and then turn around and say the opposite to please someone else.
People who do not stand for anything are very vulnerable and fall for everything because they do not set their BOUNDARIES.
They do not demand others treat them with respect and kindness and if others don’t they should get away from them but; they are too insecure so they put up with the abuse.
***If YOU put up with disrespect, lies and deceiving behavior of others; realize that you can choose to be strong and meet new people who treat you with kindness and honesty. If you don’t, you only have yourself to blame because you have free will.
As the political activist Eli Wiesel, who survived several concentration camps has written:
The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.
We must always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim.
Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented.
Because of indifference, one dies before one actually dies.
So choose to live a positive, enriching life and develop your own individual, positive philosophies, despite what others do. You will then find others who also have positive philosophies but; you have to help yourself first.
Don’t be afraid to stand proud and help others by expressing your positive, compassionate philosophies so you can be proud of YOURSELF and help make our world a better place for others, all at the same time.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder, www.PAlienation.org