My life and a note for My Children.
I believe I married someone like MY FATHER and never saw the warning signs so I hope this post helps MY CHILDREN and others begin to understand the importance FOR THEMSELVES of reasonably and objectively looking at the very clear facts which are already in public records.
If you marry someone like the person I did who: 1) was a graduate of Harvard Business School; 2) obviously was very intelligent; 3) learned how to negotiate and influence people which included learning how to be very charming at the same time; I DIDN’T HAVE THE STRENGTH to confront and fight him when he became very EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE AFTER OUR CHILDREN WERE in their teens and were young adults and the 2008 Real Estate Recession hit in America. This was about 16 to 18 years into our marriage.
IN OTHER WORDS, I reasonably would not agree to take out student loans which we did not need, in an effort to provide “fast cash” for him at very low interest rates; which he illegally used unbeknownst to me until the divorce proceedings started, for HIS OWN investment purposes. (he eventually used our children to take out these student loans, over 27 of them.). THIS IS WHAT PUBLIC RECORDS PROVE. PERIOD.
I trusted him to honestly handle our finances as a wife should be able to do.
IN ADDITION, my husband refused to show me where ALL OF OUR COLLEGE FUND SAVING ACCOUNT MONEY was and why he was not using that to pay for our children’s educations as we had planned for years.
****MY CHILDREN and OTHERS can deny all of this but they are only LYING TO THEMSELVES.***
MY LAWSUIT AGAINST MY PARENTS, SISTER and their ATTORNEY right before my marriage in 1985 proves THEY INFLICTED ME with the same kind of EMOTIONAL and FINANCIAL ABUSES. Thus, when I married my husband, not only was I:
1) Escaping from MY FAMILY due to THEIR emotional and financial abuse of me;
2) I did not realize I was so USED TO them and their abusive behaviors that I WAS MARRYING SOMEONE LIKE THEM.
They did not like my husband and did not want me to marry him because they COULD NOT CONTROL him and his ideas. They also said: 1) he came from a divorced (Jewish) family and 2) they did not like them.
They could never give me a good reason why I should not marry him, he was very well educated and had great potential and he was also very kind to me.
HEALTHY ADULTS SHOULD NOT TRY TO CONTROL OTHER ADULTS UNLESS WHAT THEY ARE DOING IS HARMFUL TO THEMSELVES AND OTHERS. This is what FREEDOM and FREE WILL is all about.
SLAVERY was technically abolished decades ago in America.
I REALLY LOVED MY HUSBAND AND WE HAD MANY WONDERFUL YEARS TOGETHER. What happened in 2008 at the time of this Real Estate Recession WHICH ALSO COINCIDED with HIS MIDDLE AGE BIRTHDAY is that he viewed money above love.
HOWEVER, HE HAD NOT LOST HIS HEART TOTALLY AT THAT TIME BECAUSE WE HAD SEVERAL DRAFTS OF A “COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE AGREEMENT” our collaborative attorneys drafted for us, which included:
1) Shared custody of the children (even the adult children on their college holidays).
2) 50/50 division of all our marital assets.
3) ALL THIS IS IN PUBLIC RECORDS and I also believe I posted it on line at one time.
FOR MY CHILDREN:
MY CHILDREN, PLEASE DO NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID by not having the STRENGTH to see all the facts regarding YOUR FATHER.
I don’t know how long I will be living as I will be 62 next month. Regardless, I am grateful we shared many fun times together as many photographs and other memorabilia prove. I hope you feel the same way.
Yesterday I went on a hike to the beautiful Red Canyon in Eilat. I think this is one of the most beautiful places I have ever been. I loved all of our family vacations and interesting and enriching trips I planned for all of us and the things we did more routinely. I hope you did too. I am attaching a photo of me from Red Canyon yesterday so if anything happens to me, if you want, you will have a current photo to remember me by.
I wish all of you the best always and I am not angry with any of you. I just hope you are soon able to reasonably and objectively look at all the facts and live your life with honest, reasonable and compassionate values and among people who do the same. By doing this you use your wisdom and skills to help GOD make a better place for yourself and mankind.
All of you have great potential so try to LEAD THE WAY FOR OTHERS TO FOLLOW as I have tried to do.
Maybe by doing so you can help President Trump and others with the “Middle East Peace Plan” because I honestly and objectively do not reasonably understand how there can be a peace plan if the Jews in Israel, America and Worldwide promote this terror of Parental Alienation against their JEWISH BRETHREN as my overwhelming facts prove.
I love you and I am GRATEFUL for our many wonderful times together.