On this Memorial Day weekend; I hope Children of all ages who have alienated their loving, law-abiding Mother (father) stop acting like she is dead and start APPRECIATING her for all the important, enriching and fun values she taught you and all the meaningful times you shared.

However to start APPRECIATING your Mother(father) you must STOP believing the lies and START looking at the facts. This is reasonable, rational and also shows your emotional maturity.

Stop allowing others to control you so you are MOLDED to have their sick and abusive values and character. Ask yourself why you want to do this…so you live in a world of obedience, abuse and corruption and not one of love, kindness and compassion?

If you choose to live in a world of obedience, abuse and corruption you will never be happy as those in that world are not; even will all their money and control.  THUS, YOUR PROBLEMS ARE SELF-INFLICTED and you only have yourself to blame for the choices you have made and continue to make.

Anyway, you can be assured, that YOU ARE BEING HARMED and that if you do not APPRECIATE your Mother for what she has done and her values and character, she is much better off without you in her life. She should surround herself with those who appreciate her and are kind people with good values and character.

It is YOUR loss if you choose to treat her like she is dead instead of learning all the important things she can teach you and having fun with her too. 

As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experiences. 
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org

 

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