The behavior of ALL THREE OF MY CHILDREN is very characteristic of those suffering from Parental Alienation as I have been advised professionally. For example; it is UNNATURAL for children of all ages to SUDDENLY alienate their loving, law-abiding Mother ESPECIALLY at the DIFFICULT TIME OF DIVORCE when their father even swore she “was an integral part of their positive upbringing.” Also, a birthday wish for my Son.
It is UNNATURAL for children of all ages to SUDDENLY:
1) Refuse to communicate and see their Mother and DEPRIVE THEMSELVES of her love; guidance and companionship which has helped them THRIVE since the day they were born;
2) Refuse their Mother’s warm delicious meals and desserts;
3) Refuse to share fun times together and instead act like she SUDDENLY DIED.
In addition, many Parental Alienation and other experts have proven that PARENTAL ALIENATION causes many psychological, emotional, physical, financial and other problems ESPECIALLY AFTER TEN YEARS.
I have been trying since the time of divorce and the PARENTAL ALIENATION BEGAN around 2008; to obtain honest, safe haven therapy for my children where their sessions are kept CONFIDENTIAL from everyone, even their father; despite all his schemes to TRY TO MAKE OUR CHILDREN a “puppet” or “mouthpiece” for him by threatening them to say what HE wants them to say; NOT WHAT THEY HONESTLY FEEL.
I have been advised professionally that MARK HASSMAN is filled with a lot of anger, shame, hate and other psychological and emotions problems HE has never resolved himself which is quite typical of narcissists and evil predators who think they are omniscient and know more than everyone.
Accordingly, MARK HASSMAN is taking all of his FRUSTRATIONS AND ANGER out on ME since I refused to “obey him” and go along with his Criminal Student Loan Fraud Scheme. (For specific details see prior post entitled “Unless JUDGE CLAUDIA SILBAR reports MARK HASSMAN to: 1) the Criminal Division of her court…” ).
Evil, crooked predator and narcissist MARK HASSMAN is USING OUR CHILDREN as PAWNS to try to “get even” with Me since I refused to “obey him.” As any credible PARENTAL ALIENATION EXPERT will state; ANYONE who creates and/or promotes the terror, torture, abuse and oppression of Parental Alienation DOES NOT LOVE THE CHILDREN.
As these credible, honest experts have PROVEN and any reasonable person knows; IT IS IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN at the time of divorce and thereafter if:
1) The Children of all ages receive LOVE FROM BOTH of their PARENTS;
2) The Children of all ages have a COMPANIONSHIP WITH BOTH of their PARENTS;
3) The Children of all ages are ENCOURAGED to have INDEPENDENT relationships WITH BOTH of their PARENTS;
4) The Children of all ages RECEIVE SAFE HAVEN THERAPY to help cope with divorce issues;
5) If PARENTAL ALIENATION has resulted; the Children of all ages receive Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) therapy which is SUPPORTED by BOTH of the parents.
Further, it is very, very detrimental for the wellbeing of children of divorce of ALL AGES if they are told lies about their alienated parent like: “Your Mother no longer loves You;” “Your Mother doesn’t come to see you anymore or communicate with you because she never wants to see you again;” when the TRUTHFUL reason is because SHE IS PROHIBITED DUE TO FRAUDULENT, INVALID AND CRIMINALLY ISSUED RESTRAINING ORDERS AGAINST HER, which the evil, crooked Father requested and PAID FOR and evil crooked judges and lawyers, religious organizations and others have allowed and enforced including but not limited to:
1. COMMISSIONER and JUDGE LON HURWITZ; JUDGE CLAUDIA SILBAR; JUDGE LINDA MILLER;
2. PAMELA SHAFFER ESQ.; SEASTROM & SEASTROM; THE LAW OFFICES OF ALAN SHIFMAN;
3. SINAI TEMPLE in Los Angeles and all its rabbis including RABBI DAVID WOLPE whom I consulted for Parental Alienation therapy; RABBI MARVIN HIER OF Simon Wiesenthal Center, its Museum of Tolerance and of Moriah, the Center’s film division AND all other JEWISH NONPROFITS AND OTHER JEWISH ORGANIZATIONS IN THE UNITED STATES (disgracefully beyond words);
4. ALL OTHER RELIGIOUS ORGANIZATIONS IN THE UNITED STATES; THEIR LEADERS AND MEMBERS (if you doubt my words then find me just one who will diligently promote OUR REVOLUTION to End this Terror);
5. Executives, Schools, the court-appointed Therapist, other Law Firms and many others.
How can all of these highly educated and experienced people REASONABLY and RATIONALLY NOT UNDERSTAND the CHILD ABUSE, TERROR, TORTURE and OPPRESSION of PARENTAL ALIENATION?
Knowledge is the pinnacle of seeing and hearing, for if one does not UNDERSTAND and DRAW THE NECESSARY AND REASONABLE CONCLUSIONS of what he or she has seen and heard; their PERCEPTION is of no value. In other words, they are DELUSIONAL.
I have so much more TRUTH TO EXPOSE but I want to mention another evil and unreasonable thought from my crooked, evil predator still legal husband MARK HASSMAN which he swore to in his declaration I was served with yesterday regarding quashing the subpoena I served upon my attorney PAMELA SHAFFER, ESQ.
Please keep in mind as I just stated and which is very reasonable and compassionate; a loving, law-abiding father which MARK HASSMAN claims he is, should WANT TO END the Parental Alienation which has been going on for TEN YEARS NOW.
Why does MARK HASSMAN want to CONTINUE to deprive Me of knowing why all these Ex Parte (emergency) restraining orders in 2009 were VALID AS HE CLAIMS and what PROOF IS THERE THAT THEY ARE STILL VALID? Why did my attorney PAMELA SHAFFER, ESQ allow them to be granted and made permanent in 2009 exercising HER VERY SERIOUS FIDUCIARY DUTY she owes ME as her client?
I paid her for her legal expertise of 25 years.
Accordingly, MARK HASSMAN again using his infinite wisdom, is claiming in his declaration I was served with yesterday, that I; an attorney licensed in Maryland, which I SPECIFICALLY stated at the hearing in JUDGE CLAUDIA SILBAR’S court recently on September 12, 2018; should not be able to use my Bar Number to exercise my First Amendment Right to redress my grievances. Harvard educated MARK HASSMAN is trying to unreasonably and irrationally claim that since I am representing myself that I cannot use my Bar Number to order a subpoena ON MY OWN BEHALF and IN THE INTEREST OF JUSTICE.
All judges have the jurisdiction, authority and responsibility to ALWAYS PROMOTE JUSTICE pursuant to our laws which includes having VALID NOT FRAUDULENT restraining orders. There must be VALIDITY clearly proven before a Mother’s CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS can be denied and for TEN YEARS NOW.
Thus, why does MARK HASSMAN want it to be a SECRET as to what VALIDITY and LEGAL BASIS there was for my attorney PAMELA SHAFFER, ESQ to allow these 2009 restraining orders to be granted AND made permanent?
If MARK HASSMAN was a loving, law-abiding father he should want ANY INVALID restraining, stay-away and other protective orders dissolved because this is reasonable, rational, compassionate and what the letter and spirit of our laws in the Democratic Republic of the United States demand. WHY IS MARK HASSMAN TRYING TO REWRITE and BYPASS our laws?
MARK HASSMAN should have remembered that not only am I a member of the Maryland Bar; I also clerked for the belated honest, compassionate, very wise and respected JUDGE JAMES S. SFEKAS who taught me many important lessons; one being to USE MY LEGAL EDUCATION to fight for my rights and the rights of others who do not have my legal education so that we can make GOD’S world a better place for honest, compassionate people.
My GRANDFATHER BEN also taught me to NEVER, EVER give up fighting for your good values and character because without those you have nothing. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR BOTH OF THEM and the very important lessons they taught me.
ALSO my eldest son’s birthday is on September 20th.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Stephen, don’t you want to contact Me and end this Parental Alienation?
If not, please leave me a comment, send me an email, call me or whatever but communicate to me why because this is REASONABLE and you used to be reasonable and also compassionate.
Why have you changed? Maybe you believe lies which I can help you resolve.
Why not have a civil discussion about this alienation which has been going on for ten years now?
Until you willingly and fervently do; you will always have shame and anger and never really be able to love and have peace of mind. If you don’t believe me look around you and also consult an honest therapist. So Happy Birthday which is really hypocritical because I know you can’t be happy until you resolve this Parental Alienation and understand the cause and why YOU HAVE ALLOWED IT TO STILL CONTINUE. You have the free will to end it if you choose.
****Stephen, I hope you have the courage to contact me so we can civilly and compassionately End this Parental Alienation and restore love, family, freedom, equal rights and justice and SET A LEGAL PRECEDENT too. That would be a wonderful BIRTHDAY PRESENT TO YOURSELF.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org
Parental Alienation is a form of abuse that destroys the sacred bond between a loving parent and their child at the time of a divorce. (Child includes teen and adult children).