The reason Divorce with Parental Alienation and a Fraudulent, Invalid Divorce Contract is so devastating can be summed up in just a few words; HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE and do not stop until they destroy them emotionally and financially.
Then they use their “accomplishment” to control the children and others saying; “Unless you do what I say, I will destroy you too, like I did to your Mother.”
I have been told professionally that people like this have narcissistic and sociopathic tendencies and need to HEAL THEMSELVES INSTEAD OF TAKING OUT THEIR ANGER AND FRUSTRATION ON OTHERS including THOSE WHO LOVED AND TRUSTED THEM LIKE THEIR WIFE AND CHILDREN.
But the problem is they refuse to get the help they need because they refuse to openly acknowledge they need help and getting this help shows courage and is reasonable.
So instead, they continue to enforce the “status quo” which is their corrupt, immoral, abusive behavior and corporate policies so they can PROFIT and also have fun. They are so sick they think it is fun to abuse others because they are so insecure it makes them feel powerful.
But, when you go to your religious leaders for help to end the Parental Alienation and they refuse. Instead they ban you from their synagogue because they made a “deal” with your husband using their “charitable” agreements; and when the law firm you hired makes a “deal” to not represent you honestly and fairly for a profit and then the judge signs off on the fraudulent divorce contract and the court-appointed therapist writes a false report so the judge issues restraining orders against you so you can’t see your children and she takes custody and visitation away without conducting any tests either; YOU REALIZE HOW MANY LEADERS “HURT AND HURT OTHERS” AS THEIR PATTERN OF BEHAVIOR AND THEIR BUSINESS POLICY.
Then when you approach your family to help you as your own therapist suggested by just periodically calling your children and they refuse too; YOU REALIZE HOW YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS “HURT AND HURT OTHERS” too.
None of these people, even very educated ones, will have honest, responsible therapy with a willingness to change. Instead they make YOU out to be crazy and sick even though YOU are the one who TRIES TO HELP OTHERS and would never intentionally hurt anyone, even your enemies.YOU also keep learning and attending therapy to discuss changes and different stages of life.
***Thus, never let those with these sick, depraved values influence you to your detriment. You know right from wrong and it is wrong for HURT PEOPLE TO HURT PEOPLE even if they don’t acknowledge it. Just be glad to be away from them.
Part of my lawsuits are requesting that all these people must attend therapy and be held accountable. A person is never too old to make positive changes. If there is a will there is a way.
So on that note, do you think my husband will tell more lies and say he is now ONLY collecting social security since he is 62; thus now he must stop paying me $350 spousal support every 2 weeks as he continues to pay for many luxuries as the FACTS show? Time will tell and I will keep you posted.
When you have the facts and see the pattern of behavior of others, you can predict what they will do. This is how therapists can conclude that based upon a person’s behavior he has narcissistic tendencies even if they never saw him. The same is true for children with PARENTAL ALIENATION SYNDROME and many other psychological and emotional disorders.
As always none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experiences.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org