What kind of person would destroy a Mother/Daughter and Mother/Son bond at the time of a divorce knowing this causes many problems for the Daughter, Son and the Mother?
Are you proud of YOUR accomplishments and HOW you made them?
In making your accomplishments were you moral or did you harm and deceive others?
If you harmed and deceived others in order to make your accomplishments; you are living with a lot of shame and lack self-confidence unless you went through therapy and changed your behavior patterns and habits and learned to change this CYCLE of harming and deceiving others.
If you are still harming and deceiving others to make your accomplishment you are also keeping secrets about this and trying to destroy anyone who tries to reveal these secrets and end your harmful behavior.
You can’t seem to realize how THIS IS HARMING YOU TOO and why you are so miserable and lack self-esteem as many experts have proven. [http://www.palienation.org/background/; http://www.palienation.org/donation/]
Harming others is wrong and is commonly abuse especially if the person being harmed has RELIED upon you to guide them in an honest way as: Children of all ages rely on their parents; clients rely on their lawyer; society relies on judges; business partners rely on each other; patients rely on their doctor or therapist; people rely on their rabbi, pastor or priest; students and their honest parent relies on teachers and school administrators; and brothers and sisters rely on each other to do what is right, not to harm them.
Wise people learn from their own mistakes and also from the mistakes of others.
This is why a young adult CANNOT BE EXPECTED to have the wisdom of a parent because they have not experienced as much of life or had as many of their own experiences or witnessed the experiences of others.
This is why young adults are MORE VULNERABLE to the lies and schemes of others who pretend they are “helping them” when they are actually harming them, like an alienating parent and those cooperating with him.
***Young adults, like my Children, are not to be blamed because they are being TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF.
***How long does someone ALLOW themselves to be taken advantage of? DON’T BELIEVE THEIR THREATS!!! CONTACT YOUR LOVING MOTHER.
***How long does someone ALLOW themselves to suffer instead of contacting their loving Mother(father)? DON’T BELIEVE THEIR THREATS!!!
***How long does someone ALLOW themselves to live in fear instead of starting to enjoy life and having fun again; not worrying what will happen if they “disobey” their father or others who are cooperating with him in destroying the Mother/Daughter and Mother/Son relationship? DON’T BELIEVE THEIR THREATS!!!
These are questions alienated Children of all ages will have to decide and their choices determine their character because for EACH DAY they allow themselves to be harmed, more and more of THEIR BEAUTIFUL CHARACTER is destroyed.
As many experts have proven; destroying the Mother/Daughter and Mother/Son bond at the time of divorce and thereafter causes many problems for the Daughter and Son and their Mother too.
WHAT KIND OF PERSON would intentionally destroy the Mother/Daughter and Mother/Son bond at the time of divorce knowing it causes many problems for the Daughter, Son and loving Mother?
Only a very sick and evil person as many experts have proven.
WHAT KIND OF ORGANIZATION would cooperate with a father or mother who wants to destroy the Mother/Daughter and Mother/Son bond at the time of divorce knowing it causes many problems for the Daughter, Son and the loving Mother?
Only a very sick and evil one as many experts have proven.
So when all of these people and organizations have CHOSEN TO HARM those relying upon them instead of learning from their mistakes and the mistakes of others by changing their harmful and abusive ways:
DOES AN HONEST, MORAL AND COMPASSIONATE PERSON STAND SILENT AND WATCH THE HARM CONTINUE?
An honest moral and compassionate person uses his or her skills, knowledge and resource to stop this harm and abuse.
This is what I am doing with regards to the emotional abuse called parental alienation which is the destruction of the bond of a loving Mother (father) and her Children of all ages at the time of divorce and thereafter.
In life when you are presented with challenges, this is your OPPORTUNITY to help yourself and others and show what YOU stand for while at the same time building YOUR OWN character and wisdom. How wonderful!!!
In life when you are presented with challenges, this is your OPPORTUNITY to help yourself and others and show what you stand for while at the same time clearly showing the character and lack of wisdom and morality of those who TRY TO STOP YOU from trying to help Children of all ages and their loving Mother from being harmed and abused.
By addressing your challenges, you are also helping others gain wisdom so THEY UNDERSTAND not to associate with the people and organizations who CHOOSE to harm Children of all ages and their Loving Mother at the time of divorce and thereafter.
Just keep forging forward bringing out the truth because God and the Truth always prevail and so does Love; the love of a loving Mother (father) and her Children as history, experts and authors have shown.
If not I, then who?
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder; www.PAlienation.org