When you need to Save Yourself
Sometimes in life when those you thought you could trust you realize are unreasonable, corrupt, dishonest and do horrible things; like an alienating parent, a brother or sister, other relatives, religious leaders, teachers…it is very important if you want to do good things, reach your potential and be full of pride, self-esteem and contentment you must SAVE YOURSELF FROM THEM.
Do not repeatedly try to save them when they spit in your face and treat you with disrespect, lie and are unreasonable. That will only waste your precious time and energy. Use it to save yourself and enrich the lives of those who are reasonable, honest and appreciate YOU.
Let all the others go and you will be so grateful.
Get rid of your worthless baggage and you will feel so much better.
Just let them know, that if they want to be respectful and civil, you will always be there for them and willing to restore your relationship. Not only is this reasonable, this shows emotional maturity. Remember people who lie and do corrupt acts are often just sugar coated misery. See past their image.
See the facts and save yourself FROM them by spreading the truth. This will help you heal and also help protect others from falling prey to the lies and corruption. This is what kind, caring, reasonable and honest people do; they help others, not pretend to help others while harming them.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder,www.PAlienation.org