Why it is very important for children, especially Adult Children who have Divorced Parents to have Therapy so they will not develop SEXUAL and INTIMACY issues.
Often in a divorce situation, one parent tells lies and makes up false stories about the other parent.
I know in my situation, my ex-husband has been doing this for over seven (7) years as many FACTS show.
This has very, very serious lasting effects on the Children and their SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT.
As many experts have proven, often the Children have trouble being INTIMATE because they are AFRAID TO TRUST AND LOVE.
For example, the Children for years have heard so many horrible things about women (or men) that they think they are monsters and are afraid to trust them and become intimate and develop MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS with them.
***This is called non-physical emotional sexual abuse.
Worse, sometimes these Adult Children think women (or men) should be abused and treated with disrespect because this is what they were taught from all the lies and false stories they were told.
Still worse, sometimes these Adult Children do not want to FACE THIS REALITY and therefore do not want to deal with their serious sexual problem so they never learn to Love and have a meaningful intimate relationship.
Some may also abuse women themselves and continue this cycle of hate and abuse. It is really a shame.
So, PLEASE UNDERSTAND that divorce is a LIFE CHANGING EVENT and therapy with a reputable, competent and honest therapist is very necessary to grow and mature in healthy ways which includes your SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT and HAVING THE ABILITY TO LOVE and be INTIMATE; not just have SEX.
In my fight against Good vs. Evil, everything is moving along very well because I know how to love and have had therapy and understand those who don’t. That is a FACT.
So, please, BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF and get yourself the help you need with a reputable therapist. My Children, please do this for your own wellbeing.
***Being able to love and truly be intimate are wonderful capabilities.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my own knowledge and experiences.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org