Why many marriages fail including my own and why many fathers feel an evil need to create Parental Alienation at the time of divorce.
A man with an INFERIORITY COMPLEX despises himself and tries to gain self-esteem from having more money and/or more sexual conquests which provide illusions and momentary escapes.
The man who is after more money will lie, cheat and steal to obtain it which is why divorce in his mind is a way to PROFIT along with Parental Alienation because he will also very shamefully and horrifically use, abuse and terrorize THE CHILDREN so he can profit, like mine did an still does. For example, when the economy changed, this was the catalyst (money); my husband MARK HASSMAN became INSECURE.
Thus, he did not want a wife on equal footing anymore; he wanted one who would be obedient to his criminal ways. PLUS, he felt a need to use our three children in his student loan fraud scheme and real estate scheme. However, he knew he needed to get Me out of the way to be able to use, abuse, terrorize and torture our children so he created the Parental Alienation. This also allowed him to not pay Me any child support even though he has admitted in public records that I was a wonderful Mother and Wife.
The man who tries to be a player or playboy equates his “conquests” with self-esteem. However, he does not love so he gets bored quickly and can’t seem to find a partner for long so he drifts from one partner to another, losing more self-esteem along the way. The man after money wants a partner in crime and love is not even part of the equation.
But how do men even get to this point?
When a man is PROUD of his self-worth he has moral values and is reasonable. He seeks a woman NOT to enhance his value or to steal with him and commit other crimes; instead he seeks a woman to EXPRESS his emotions and feelings and share hers so they grow together as they face their challenges in moral, reasonable ways. This describes my marriage for about eighteen years.
When a man wants an obedient partner and not an equal partner he knows he cannot “conquer” one who has high, moral values and is reasonable. Thus, he lowers his standards which also lower his own self-esteem and self-worth. Then he will feel that depravity is all he is worthy of enjoying and thinks vice is pleasure and true love is a senseless emotion. He tries to gain a sense of his own self-worth from the women he “conquers” but they have low standards and values.
He is too insecure to change and be able to attract women of higher standards and values who have their own self-worth. Thus, this gives him more of an inferiority complex. These men are AFRAID TO FAIL so they choose women who they know will be submissive and obedient.
Well, I hope this is helpful. This is what many experts and also my personal experiences have proven.
By the way, many wonderful things are happening for those who live in the world of love.
My horrible husband still refuses to give me our children’s contact information so we can celebrate the upcoming Jewish holidays together and reasonably try to resolve the Parental Alienation and the misunderstandings based on lies and schemes. Think this will incriminate him even more or make him look more reasonable, moral and kind?
In all seriousness, why do you think my children who are now adults have refused to contact me to discuss the Parental Alienation and help resolve it?
Do you think they have become corrupt themselves or have been threatened?
Time will tell; I am sure. It is not reasonable to not even try to contact your loving, law-abiding Mother for over nine years now as any reasonable, compassionate person knows.
The facts and those involved in this EVIL CRIMINAL CONSPIRACY become clearer every day; as expected. This is all part of justice as we watch them destroy themselves and each other often to their own ignorance until it is too late.
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice; it is based upon my knowledge and experience.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org