Why many people who need help Choose NOT to get the Proper Help
Two very common mistakes many people make are:
1) they do not ask for help because they let their egos get in the way and they act too proud. They think…how could someone like them ever need help? They are the King or Queen and know it all.
2) those who do ask for help do not qualify the person first to make sure they are COMPETENT and CAPABLE and have SHOWN they are capable to give the required help. Often people turn to their relatives who can’t even solve their own problems.
In both cases, the people who need help have more and more problems so they feel hopeless, trapped and vulnerable to abuse like my Children and many children suffering from parental alienation. If you don’t believe me look at the facts that many experts have proven.[http://www.palienation.org/background/]
***Any alienating Children who are reading this if you do not believe me, ask yourself HONESTLY, what has your loving Mother (father) done that is so horrible that you chose and continue to choose to alienation them.
You know or should know your alienation is NOT REASONABLE and YOU NEED HELP to help YOURSELF work through the lies, misunderstandings and your emotions.
***If not, you will have more and more problems as many experts have proven which is only YOUR FAULT because you have FREE WILL to CHOOSE TO get the help you need as a responsible, mature reasonable adult does.
Remember, I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.-Carl Jung.
***You should care enough about YOURSELF to get yourself the competent and capable help you need. No one needs to know, just do it and realize the great results.
How do you think I figured out the parental alienation? I also was prescribed the proper medication so I could focus, eat and sleep so I could function properly while being monitored. Many turn to abuses like drugs, alcohol, the internet etc. instead of getting the proper therapy and as a result they create more and more problems for themselves.
In addition, they associate with other people who do the same which creates even more problems for them.
So choose wisely, because your choices define your HABITS, your habits define your CHARACTER and your character defines your DESTINY.
So be strong and capable as you are and don’t let your pride or ego get in the way…so go get the appropriate help you need. Also, contact your loving Mother (father) because this is REASONABLE too. Why be unreasonable, do you want to keep harming yourself because you are so full of SHAME? If so, PLEASE go get help asap.
Also, don’t let your sick, abusive alienating father and all those cooperating with him regarding the parental alienation and stealing my community property and income take you down with them. PROTECT YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU KNOW OR SHOULD KNOW THEY WON’T; THEY WILL ONLY CONTINUE TO USE AND ABUSE YOU. See the truth and help yourself like I have and continue to do.
On a different note: Especially for my Children and others too… did you know that the Prime Minister of Israel Benjamin Netanyahu’s brother was killed during the raid on Entebbe? His brother was the Commander of the entire operation and was the only one to die because he put the well being of his soldiers before himself? This gives Netanyahu great motivation and a special perspective.
Also, do not worry, things are moving along fine. Just make sure YOU are reasonable, kind and honest because you too can be held accountable. Love always, Mom
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org