Why millions of Alienating Parents and those Aiding Them will FALL, unless they CHANGE their ways.
Why millions of alienating parents and those aiding and abetting them in immoral and unlawful acts will FALL; including adult children and step-children UNLESS they change their corrupt ways.
The Laws in a Democratic Republic like the United States apply to everyone equally. If a sick, horrible, evil father, (especially one like my ex-husband who is a Certified Public Accountant, Chief Financial Officer who received his MBA from Harvard); uses his adult children and step-child to sign a loan with a Federal Bank or a grant for a Federal Student Loan that has fraudulent information, it is my understanding that the adult children and step-child can be held liable unless they are INCOMPETENT, there is DURESS or OTHER MITIGATING CIRCUMSTANCES.
***Cheating a Loving Mother is immoral and evil beyond words and also not what our Objective laws intend. Using the Loving Mother’s brainwashed or threatened adult Children is even more evil and so very reprehensible as any reasonable, competent person knows.
Those who choose to cheat a loving Mother like a Judge, Law Firms, a Rabbi, Pastor and Religious Organizations, Accountants, Executives, Joint Venture Partners, a New Wife, an Ex-Mother-in-law, a Therapist, a 401k Plan Administrator will FALL and FALL VERY HARD for many reasons; aside from not having God, Truth and Love on their side:
***There is little that can withstand a man or woman who can conquer himself or herself. – Louis XIV
Let the truth prevail! I will never give up.
I know my Children would NEVER alienate me from their life and do immoral an illegal acts because I raised them as their full time Mother for about 18years and instilled their beautiful characters and values as THEIR renowned, amazing accomplishments and balanced daily life with many enriching activities were known by many.
My Daughter and Sons did not have an entitled attitude and my Daughter would have NEVER told me she would NEVER see me again or go to the therapy Dr. Phil graciously provided unless I take my website down on Parental Alienation.
Instead, my Daughter would have told me she was PROUD of me for using my time and energy to help so many with my knowledge and skills and also for trying to change the immoral laws which allow Parental Alienation to continue.
My Daughter would have NEVER told me that I was “just” a Mother and did not deserve to have any spousal support, savings, retirement or investments even though I put my career and my own hobbies on hold for almost 2 decades to help raise her and her brothers with a lot of love and devotion which was so wonderful.
What type of person has my Daughter ALLOWED herself to become? What about my Sons? What type of person has each of my Sons ALLOWED themselves to become?
My Daughter and Sons know or should know they have free will and can make THEIR OWN CHOICES as an adult but at the same time will also BE RESPONSIBLE for their actions.
I particularly discussed their free will and accompanying responsibilities with each of my Children at the time of their Bar Mitzvahs and Bat Mitzvah because this is part of what these special occasions celebrate in the Jewish religion.
My Daughter would have NEVER told me I was “just” a Mother and did not DESERVE any support, savings or retirement.
My Daughter and I talked about the importance of being a wonderful Mother and I even have a box of books, cards, games, stuffed animals and other special things for her she asked me to save that she wants to show or use to teach her children when she one day gets married and becomes a Mother.
I have things for my Sons too; remember “Bear” and the Gilman journals and those wonderful notes folded up in those little envelopes and the free coupons for “bench time?” Remember the drawing about “something special in my room” and you chose your brother? Remember the tooth fairy notes, our tennis, croquet and chess games, rollerblading, making homemade applesauce and sushi?
*** We have so many great memories and they do not include defaming anyone’s character but BUILDING each other’s character and LEARNING from each other so we were all enriched.
My Daughter and I talked about the importance of being a wonderful Mother and also a strong Woman as we used to read together the book about many strong Women who made great accomplishments called “They Lead the Way.” Remember?
So my Children and my ex-husband’s Step-daughter,( who I do not know); PLEASE just start today TELLING the TRUTH and DOING what you know is right. For the step-daughter, if you are unsure; just follow my Daughter because SHE KNOWS; she and my Sons have been LED ASTRAY.
FOR MY CHILDREN and EVERYONE:
It is important to do what is right even when no one is looking, as I taught you. Also, it is important to “agree to disagree” as Judge Sfekas made so very clear to me. If you can’t and people want to be revengeful or act like “tit for tat” and keep doing harmful acts to others; get away from them. That is no way to live.
It is ALWAYS very important that you SHOW what you stand for and there is nothing to be concerned about IF you TELL the TRUTH and ACT MORAL.
Unfortunately it appears, your father and others have put you in a COMPROMISING POSITION and I will be bringing this out and you will most likely be involved.
Just show your true character and realize you have been LED ASTRAY or brainwashed or deceived or whatever you would like to call it.
Millions can benefit from your experiences and knowledge and WE can heal everything.
You know if I have healed from my seizures and all the emotional abuse and I still cope with it; you can heal too. I can TEACH YOU along with other trained, moral professionals who practice safe haven therapy which means your sessions will be kept confidential.
Also, DON’T WORRY about your father and others who have forced you to behave in these unreasonable and also what appears to be immoral and unlawful ways. I will take care of that.
Please just start ACTING in moral and reasonable ways like you used to when I was part of your life as your Mother.
Also, please remember, I am NOT angry with you for any of this; you are not to blame AT ALL. This is all part of the parental alienation.
***Now is your time to SHINE and show your TRUE CHARACTER.
Also, you know I am always here for you, providing you are respectful as you used to be. I am sure you understand that I do not want my seizures to return. So, with respectful, civil, honest, kind, and compassionate conversations; I am sure we can resolve this Parental Alienation or whatever you would like to call it and what appears to be immoral and unlawful acts which involve all of you.
Love always, Mom
As always, none of this is advice of any kind, it is just based on my understanding and experiences.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder; www.PAlienation.org