Why these memories no longer upset me but remind me of the wonderful Mother I am
I reached another wonderful milestone in my fight against this TERRORISM called Parental Alienation involving depriving a loving, law-abiding Mother/Wife of her legal right to Due Process so she CANNOT obtain a legal divorce and CANNOT receive her property and income which legally belongs to her.
As any loving Mother also experiencing Parental Alienation understands as well as other compassionate people; since the time of my divorce which has been over seven (7) years now; I have been unable to go through my holiday boxes. This year, not only have I been able to HAPPILY go through my Hanukkah box but I am also helping my friend prepare for her Hanukkah dinner party. She is also a great cook and baker as am I.
We already made both sweet potato and white potato latkes and homemade apple sauce. I used to make homemade applesauce very often throughout the year with my children. We had so much fun and the applesauce was delicious too; especially over ice cream. When we made the applesauce, each of my children had their own bowls because they each liked different amounts of cinnamon.
Thus, as this one simple example shows; I have always encouraged INDIVIDUALITY since my children have been young.
I also never taught my children to follow people with depraved values, no matter who these people are; even if they are members of your own family. For example:
***My children know we never had a relationship with my parents and sister and other members of my family because they had depraved values and sided with my wealthy parents who fraudulently used my social security number. My Mother and sister (my father died) and other relatives STILL refuse to change their depraved ways and also apologize. This is even YEARS AFTER my lawsuit helped change the “kiddie trust” laws.
I raised my children with Jewish values DAILY.
Our home was a Jewish home.
Continuing, my friend and I are also using the Hanukkah candy molds. My children and I had so much fun making delicious Hanukkah candy. My Daughter, who is very creative, used tiny brushes so her candies were especially beautiful as well as delicious. I remember her menorah candies had the yellow candles burning.
I have displayed one of the menorahs we used as a family before the divorce. It is inside but by my Benjamin Garden on my balcony, which I named after my wise and compassionate Grandfather Ben, who had a hobby of gardening.
His garden was very beautiful with mainly beautiful roses with such a wonderful scent. The menorah my family and I used to use looks great there. It reminds me of our wonderful times and the wonderful Mother I am.
Of course my friend has Hanukkah napkins. I put out in my apartment the Hanukkah towels my family and I used in the bathroom during Hanukkah.
I learned how to do calligraphy many years ago which is very fancy handwriting. So, I am making the Hanukkah place cards for the dinner table. This very HAPPILY reminds me how I used my calligraphy skills to address all of the Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah invitations for my Children and this milestone occasion. I even taught my youngest Son some calligraphy.
All of my Children studied hard for years and read their Torah portion beautifully and made amazing speeches too. They did Charity projects to help others who were less fortunate as their Mitzvah project for their Bar or Bat Mitzvah.
***I am not sad anymore when I think of these wonderful memories because it reminds me of the wonderful Mother that I am and the important values I tried to instill in my Children. I am very proud of myself and the great progress I have made from many important prospectives.***
Thus, this is a very HAPPY holiday time for me. I hope it will be for you too; especially those with depraved values who will NOW choose to transform themselves by changing their horrible values and character.
“I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.” -Carl Jung
As always, none of this is legal or any other advice.
-By Sara Hassman, Parental Alienation Solutions, Founder;www.PAlienation.org
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